llmerrick
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- Joined
- Sep 15, 2017
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- MBTI Type
- INTJ
- Enneagram
- 1w9
- Instinctual Variant
- sp/sx
I am intrigued by an ISTP. We are both in our 30s.
He is an artist, and I am in a phase of my life where I have developed my aesthetic sensibilities.
His gaze is not as vapid as an INTPs, but has an element of intense awareness of his immediate environment.
I suspect that even if he's staring straight forward he's acutely aware of what's going on behind him.
I see invisible tentacles undulating around him, making come-hither motions. Damn him and his raw sexual aura.
Questions for ISTPs (it doesn't matter if you're a male or female)
How would you act if someone you're sexually intrigued by is around?
Have you ever met someone you think is above your league so far as sex is concerned?
How would you act around such a person?
What if said person expressed mild interest in you, how would you act then?
Would you prefer to initiate, or would you prefer that the other person initiate contact?
Would you do 'hinty' things when he's around in order for him to initiate contact?
What do you NOT like about INTJs?
What do you like about INTJs?
How do you generally approach committing to a relationship?
---friends ---> FBuds ---> committed (or some other order?)
What can an INTJ say or do that would royally piss you off to the point that you will completely dismiss him forever?
Would you engage in a random hookup, or do you prefer to chat with the person first before hooking up with them?
How often do you prefer to have sex: every night? every other night? every week?
Are you open to only spending time with a potential mate once a week, with the rest of the week being spent all to yourself?
Are you open to only spending time with your significant other just before bed-time, with the rest of the day where you spend time by yourself?
I would gladly initiate contact, I just need to know what topics to avoid and how not to act/speak. My fully authentic self has gotten me in so much social trouble in the past, so basically I want to show him a watered down version of my authentic self in the beginning and slowly ease in my fully authentic self over a long period of time.
Please help.
He is an artist, and I am in a phase of my life where I have developed my aesthetic sensibilities.
His gaze is not as vapid as an INTPs, but has an element of intense awareness of his immediate environment.
I suspect that even if he's staring straight forward he's acutely aware of what's going on behind him.
I see invisible tentacles undulating around him, making come-hither motions. Damn him and his raw sexual aura.
Questions for ISTPs (it doesn't matter if you're a male or female)
How would you act if someone you're sexually intrigued by is around?
Have you ever met someone you think is above your league so far as sex is concerned?
How would you act around such a person?
What if said person expressed mild interest in you, how would you act then?
Would you prefer to initiate, or would you prefer that the other person initiate contact?
Would you do 'hinty' things when he's around in order for him to initiate contact?
What do you NOT like about INTJs?
What do you like about INTJs?
How do you generally approach committing to a relationship?
---friends ---> FBuds ---> committed (or some other order?)
What can an INTJ say or do that would royally piss you off to the point that you will completely dismiss him forever?
Would you engage in a random hookup, or do you prefer to chat with the person first before hooking up with them?
How often do you prefer to have sex: every night? every other night? every week?
Are you open to only spending time with a potential mate once a week, with the rest of the week being spent all to yourself?
Are you open to only spending time with your significant other just before bed-time, with the rest of the day where you spend time by yourself?
I would gladly initiate contact, I just need to know what topics to avoid and how not to act/speak. My fully authentic self has gotten me in so much social trouble in the past, so basically I want to show him a watered down version of my authentic self in the beginning and slowly ease in my fully authentic self over a long period of time.
Please help.