SwimmerGal97
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I was reading a post from a while back by someone asking what to write in a love letter to an ISFJ. It got me thinking about how I would respond to receiving a love letter or other romantic gesture and my whole dating style in general.
Personally I find gestures like gifts and long letters (or god forbid, poetry!) very uncomfortable. I'd rather the person did something simple like invite me on a long walk or cook a meal and tell me how they felt without all the flourish or game playing. I'm not interested in playing games, or 'flirtationships' or people who think they can mess me around and I'll come back begging. I'm also not attracted to someone unless I know them and feel comfortable with them. A hot guy could come and chat me up in a club and I'd appreciate his good looks but wouldn't be interested in anything other than maybe a chat.
I find it interesting and slightly annoying how in descriptions ISFJs are portrayed as...kinda weak. And like their lives revolve around doing things for others.
What about other ISFJs? Are you romantics or tough to win over?
Personally I find gestures like gifts and long letters (or god forbid, poetry!) very uncomfortable. I'd rather the person did something simple like invite me on a long walk or cook a meal and tell me how they felt without all the flourish or game playing. I'm not interested in playing games, or 'flirtationships' or people who think they can mess me around and I'll come back begging. I'm also not attracted to someone unless I know them and feel comfortable with them. A hot guy could come and chat me up in a club and I'd appreciate his good looks but wouldn't be interested in anything other than maybe a chat.
I find it interesting and slightly annoying how in descriptions ISFJs are portrayed as...kinda weak. And like their lives revolve around doing things for others.
What about other ISFJs? Are you romantics or tough to win over?