Amethyst
¡MI TORTA!
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So, lately I've kinda been not a fan of me mum, which is odd, because for the most part I try and be more like her, I look up to her, but now I don't know.
Mother is one of those mothers who wants me to be a doctor/lawyer/something that makes buku bucks, and make ton'o'money, so I (she) can be well-off. I never really noticed it before, I thought it was just my own interest (Those summer pre-health camps and the ridiculous science load in high school couldn't have all been me ) but now I'm starting to see it now that I failed out of the pre-med track at my college.
At first, when my mom found out I failed, she was okay with it, and said 'It's fine, go take classes that will bring up your GPA and that you'll like'. But now, since the opportunity to drop the failing grades has arose and me transferring and all, she wants me back on pre-med again!
Thing is, I don't even know what I want to be, and all she has been doing lately is calling me up and lecturing me about how I need to find a major, but I only have so little to choose from, it has to be something that makes money (which is understandable, but when I told her I was considering majoring in business, she just yapped on about 'Well look at your father, look where he's at? Are we rich? No!')
I'm really lost as to what to do with this woman, so I was thinking advice here might help?
Mother is one of those mothers who wants me to be a doctor/lawyer/something that makes buku bucks, and make ton'o'money, so I (she) can be well-off. I never really noticed it before, I thought it was just my own interest (Those summer pre-health camps and the ridiculous science load in high school couldn't have all been me ) but now I'm starting to see it now that I failed out of the pre-med track at my college.
At first, when my mom found out I failed, she was okay with it, and said 'It's fine, go take classes that will bring up your GPA and that you'll like'. But now, since the opportunity to drop the failing grades has arose and me transferring and all, she wants me back on pre-med again!
Thing is, I don't even know what I want to be, and all she has been doing lately is calling me up and lecturing me about how I need to find a major, but I only have so little to choose from, it has to be something that makes money (which is understandable, but when I told her I was considering majoring in business, she just yapped on about 'Well look at your father, look where he's at? Are we rich? No!')
I'm really lost as to what to do with this woman, so I was thinking advice here might help?