Santosha
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This is really directed at NFP's that are in, or have been in, long term relations with Introverts, though anyone is welcome to respond.
I am having a really difficult time with an introvert. We can't seem to balance the amount of time together and alone to make eachother truly comfortable and happy. So much of the INFP profile resonates with me.. but this seems to be the one thing that doesn't match up. I NEED to spend quite a bit of time with my partner.. and I wonder.. INFP's: how much alone time do you generally need in long term pairings?
ENFP's: How much alone time can you allow before you begin to feel disconnected or unloved?
Like, maybe give me a general idea of what your time with your partners looks like on a daily basis.. and what you'd want it to be if it's not what your happy with?
I am having a really difficult time with an introvert. We can't seem to balance the amount of time together and alone to make eachother truly comfortable and happy. So much of the INFP profile resonates with me.. but this seems to be the one thing that doesn't match up. I NEED to spend quite a bit of time with my partner.. and I wonder.. INFP's: how much alone time do you generally need in long term pairings?
ENFP's: How much alone time can you allow before you begin to feel disconnected or unloved?
Like, maybe give me a general idea of what your time with your partners looks like on a daily basis.. and what you'd want it to be if it's not what your happy with?