I'm confused. I thought STPs and NFJs got along better.. theoretically speaking.
Somehow the pairing of STPs and NFJs has worked great in my life.
My best of best friends are either STPs or NFJs.
NFJs absolutley kill me with their weird twists on humor, and their quest for perfection and goodness, that has always been noble to me , for so lots of folks are so selfish, to many for so long. The NFJs I know have integrated with "human decency", they care, they want to make the world a better place and do the right thing. That's just cool as hell to me, and I love it.
My STP peeps are spme crazy MoFos, my SFP folks too.
I also get along with NTs, two great friends of mine are INTP and ENTP; they brutalize me, and I die laughing and sling it right back.
I honestly don't know many SJs in real life, but, my Dad is an ESTJ, and although a force of nature all his own, he is a cool and decent man, and I love him and respect him for being so consistent and honorable. If that's an SJ thing, then I see no harm in it.