Bamboo
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Back up a second. The article is clearly aimed toward taking actions (with little regard of their genuine nature) which will advance your position with your superiors. It is to this content (and this interpretation of the content) to which I wrote my original post. (The article did include details such as 'flirting will only get you so far' but I found the tone exploitive). Let's not lose that.
Are you summarizing my posts as "Either people are supposed to get along or they're supposed to be direct and honest" or making a declarative statement of your own? I don't understand.
Quick answer, no. There's a communication gap here so before we run down tangents let's check the main assumptions we're working with.
These two posts conflict. Either people are supposed to get along or they're supposed to be direct and honest.
Are you summarizing my posts as "Either people are supposed to get along or they're supposed to be direct and honest" or making a declarative statement of your own? I don't understand.
So, say you're naturally flirtatious and flirt with both genders as a sign of friendliness. Must you stop being this way if this person can advance your career?
Quick answer, no. There's a communication gap here so before we run down tangents let's check the main assumptions we're working with.