PocketFullOf
literally your mother
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I think in some cases it might be more important than IQ.
No in the grand scheme of humanity, at this juncture EQ is underrated and IQ is overrated. Seriously if I converse online with one more self typed INT with extremely low EQ who thinks their IQ is beneficial to mankind I'll puke. Let's have more Einstein, a man with a high IQ who had ethics and knew how to love.
I just.... can't read this anymore.
How do you know he knew how to love? Divorcing your wife and leaving her with the kids is love? Ending up with his cousin, is love, because lets keep it in the family?
Let's have more Einstein, a man with a high IQ who had ethics and knew how to love.
Anybody can judge someone else's life. It will never be the same as living it.
Yes. That is love. Love for oneself. Do you think kids would have grown healthy and happy in a family where their parents don't love each other but are forced to keep a united fake family. And you can like it or not, but situations like that one make you grow and understand life more as you're a young person. Staying in a relationship and in a family you dont want to be in isn't love, is fear of change and discovering that you don't know how to be yourself and make your own decisions. It isn't productive at all.
But that's how society is built. They set fake standards of values that don't exist and make people lose their own self.
When you have children, you no longer have the luxury of simply satisfying your own self. Leaving an unhappy and unhealthy relationship is one thing, that doesn't green light discarding your children, like them or not.
Look, look Mademoiselle, my dear Mademoiselle, all I want to know is your emotional intelligence overrated?
Let me think..
Actually while typing me they catch emotions from me, more than I have.
If it means overrated then yes at that case.
However, I’d like to have enough emotions to be proper, I need to have it,.
So, I don’t mind adopting “emotional†in my character, although it’s not true..
I totally accept my type as it is, but just like every other type I need to improve it.
And, yes, mine is overrated just like how it should be.
But to be honest I don’t have it, yet I show it.
Silence is golden.Imagine that I am emotional. Imagine my emotions stream out of me like a radio broadcast. And imagine you can tune the radio. And you have a radio of your own. You can tune your radio to my frequency and I can tune my radio to your frequency. So if you sit in one corner of the room and I sit in the other corner, we can broadcast in stereo.
Silence is golden.
Imagine that I am emotional. Imagine my emotions stream out of me like a radio broadcast. And imagine you can tune the radio. And you have a radio of your own. You can tune your radio to my frequency and I can tune my radio to your frequency. So if you sit in one corner of the room and I sit in the other corner, we can broadcast in stereo.
More or less. And businesses typically run on a profit maximisation scheme, even if that involves hesitatingly adhering to things like "corporate social responsibility" because it manipulates the public to have a positive disposition towards the business. If you're in big business, you're not going to want people with consciences, especially in sales. Logic, strategic planning and a touch of the Machiavellian are what put businesses ahead, not high EQ scores.
Unfortunately, many people do. Equally unfortunately this is why the widespread teaching of alternative methods of analyzing information and making decisions are not supported, at least by U.S. corporations. It is much easier to manipulate people's emotions than to make a logical case for the merits of one's product or service, not to mention making a product or providing a service that is worth buying on its own merits.I'm a marketer.....I know from experience that consumers buy on emotions. Appealing to emotion is key at all times
Unfortunately, many people do. Equally unfortunately this is why the widespread teaching of alternative methods of analyzing information and making decisions are not supported, at least by U.S. corporations. It is much easier to manipulate people's emotions than to make a logical case for the merits of one's product or service, not to mention making a product or providing a service that is worth buying on its own merits.