lunalum
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People complain all the time that I'm too quiet--especially my parents. I feel horrible because they expect me to socialize with them but I can't think of a single thing to talk about. On top of that, I suck at talking because I can't easily think and talk at the same time, so whenever I try to explain things I often word things awkwardly or forget to mention some important piece. No matter how hard I try, I can never express myself the way that I wish I could, which is extremely frustrating. So anyways, that's why I wish I were an extrovert. I'm not sure if being an extrovert comes with those skills, but it would probably at least help some.
Yeah... I don't know. I have all of those problems as well. I really don't think extraversion solves them. Would you be very open about yourself and enjoy doing all sorts of activities and sort of be all out there nibbling just a bit of everything the world has to offer, thriving on the extra input and attention while not missing your deeper, more focused approach.... if you were able to magically break free and engage?