[Traditional Enneagram] Love is Just a Wing Away

[Starry]

Ew...I can't see myself with an Eight or a One, of any wing.

I love how this post starts out "Ew" haha.

 

[Starry]

I don't think the 4's would be too happy with being the idea of being assimilated.

I'm no 6w5 cp though

This is very true.

 

[Starry]

i've only got a 3, 6, and 7 for reference. the chemistry was best with the 6.

You haven't been with the entire enneagram yet?

 

[Starry]

7w8s seem kinda spooky.

No truer words


*I'm having a hard time responding to these because I keep losing my place. Intuitive Feeler is a shitty lot

 

[Starry]

1w2 and 8w9. I'd honestly prefer the 8 because of how much I think I'd get out of merging with them and could learn from them in general. I'd secretly be terrified at first but that's not nearly enough with regards to that. I'd definitely be willing to struggle against that.
I probably couldn't bear not to in a scenario like that, no matter how astray or whatever.

TTheorist above did say "Ew" about 9 with 8...but when I consider these two types I think it would be a good match. Both sorta wants what the other has to give. (Instead of a typer I totally want to be a matchmaker now...like a creepy, old gypsy-styled one with cataracts and boney fingers...you know?)

 

[Starry]

I haven't a clue. Why would I get along better with 4w3 and 6w7? Yes, there is this girl who is 4w3 and we get along and seem compatible, but it seems to have more to do with her being ESI and me being LIE, and less to do with enneagram.

Btw, [MENTION=10082]Starry[/MENTION] I remember you typed me as 6w5 back in the day, when I used to frequent this forum back in 2014.

No, that would be 5w4 and 7w6 for you...

 

[Typh0n]

No, that would be 5w4 and 7w6 for you...

Lol, you haven't answered me when I asked you to give me your reasoning behind 6w5. Will you not give me your reasons?

 

[Starry]

I have doubts because because at our low points, both 3 and 5 (competency triad) are prone to contempt for precisely what 4 (reactive triad) is prone to indulge, and contempt is a love killer.

I need more coffee to respond to this. I don't know about all the triads haha

 

[Starry]

Lol, you haven't answered me when I asked you to give me your reasoning behind 6w5. Will you not give me your reasons?

One thing at a time Typh0n sheesh. (Seriously, I'm just reponding to posts...I haven't gotten to the other stuff...but didn't I give you an argument back in 2014? That's prob what I would say today).

 

[gromit]

6s really do seem to melt my heart

I think I am 9w1? so I guess for me that should be 1w2 and 8w9... I don't kno who I know like that, but I like 8s and 1s in general.

Some vague data for your theory

 

[Typh0n]

One thing at a time Typh0n sheesh. (Seriously, I'm just reponding to posts...I haven't gotten to the other stuff...but didn't I give you an argument back in 2014? That's prob what I would say today).

I don't remember what you told me in 2014. I do think you told me I reminded you of our homie Nights and Days, but I don't remember what else. Saying I resemble someone who you believe is 6w5 isn't enough though, I don't know NaD well enough to know what you mean. Maybe you told me something else, I'll check my VMs and get back to you Starry.

 

[Starry]

I don't remember what you told me in 2014. I do think you told me I reminded you of our homie Nights and Days, but I don't remember what else. Saying I resemble someone who you believe is 6w5 isn't enough though, I don't know NaD well enough to know what you mean. Maybe you told me something else, I'll check my VMs and get back to you Starry.

Ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm....
I merely provided you an example for your benefit. I don't type by comparison thank you. (yah you're nothing like a FJ 6w5cp at all. Stay 5w4)

*edit this post was not meant to sound mean

 

[Typh0n]

Ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm....
I merely provided you an example for your benefit. I don't type by comparison thank you. (yah you're nothing like a FJ 6w5cp at all. Stay 5w4)

Are you upset with me?

Edit: actually you had told me (I checked the VMs) that you had used ME as an example to convince NaD that he was 6w5. So it was the other way around. But you never gave me reasons wich I am still awaiting from you.

 

[Typh0n]

[MENTION=10082]Starry[/MENTION]

I'm not asking you to answer me right away. I can wait.

 

[Starry]

Are you upset with me?

Edit: actually you had told me (I checked the VMs) that you had used ME as an example to convince NaD that he was 6w5. So it was the other way around. But you never gave me reasons wich I am still awaiting from you.

No I'm not upset with you at all. I remember telling you about NaD/Evee.

Part of the problem with NFJ 6w5cps is it is nearly impossible for them to see themselves in this type. A problem that is compounded by the fact their internal experience shifts so they think they are a different type depending on the different night and day. If I'm remembering correctly I don't think I had the energy to build an argument that ultimately wouldn't matter so I was just like "check out so-and-so and see if you can figure it out yourself."

 

[Typh0n]

No I'm not upset with you at all. I remember telling you about NaD/Evee.

Part of the problem with NFJ 6w5cps is it is nearly impossible for them to see themselves in this type. A problem that is compounded by the fact their internal experience shifts so they think they are a different type depending on the different night and day. If I'm remembering correctly I don't think I had the energy to build an argument that ultimately wouldn't matter so I was just like "check out so-and-so and see if you can figure it out yourself."

It is typically said that 3s 6s and 9s might think they are a different type from day to day. I think its part of the "conformist" (approval seeking) type dilmemna.

I'd be happy to discuss my with you further, depending upon what you bring to the table.

Also I'm pretty sure of being an NT, not NF. But one thing at a time, ok?

 

[ChocolateMoose123]

[MENTION=10082]Starry[/MENTION]

8w9's would be the other relationship I could see myself in, very easily. Does this fit with your theory or does the CP6 aspect not play a part? Curious.

 

[OrangeAppled]

"The course of true love never did runneth smooth"

Well, at least I am not sandwiched by bad boy types (get your mind our of the gutter). cp6s & 8s....eeeehh...
I think I like "good guys", but I am too temperamental for them (sometimes a love/hate with 1s & 2s, for example). 3s and 5s are sort of "morally neutral" people. I observe 4s more often paired with 5s, and otherwise 6s or 9s, and not so much with 3s.

 

[OrangeAppled]

It is typically said that 3s 6s and 9s might think they are a different type from day to day. I think its part of the "conformist" (approval seeking) type dilmemna.

I'd be happy to discuss my with you further, depending upon what you bring to the table.

Also I'm pretty sure of being an NT, not NF. But one thing at a time, ok?

It's deeper than that...it really is.... I worked the whole thing out in my head last in night over a bowl of popcorn, but then I went to sleep and may have lost all my clarity on it.

It has to do with them being the cornerstone of the basic fixations all the others stem from, etc, etc, etc, and so they see themselves a lot in other types, plus descriptions fail to capture their variety (I hold these to be the most populous types, whatever stats say).

 

[Merced]

A person most compatible with me would either be a 3w2 or 2w1... I can see myself with a 3w2, but 2w1...? Nah, I think I would get on their nerves. I haven't been in a relationship with anyone of these types.