Let's just say I spent 14 odd months posting on PerC believing the following
- First as an INFJ 6w5 [no one doubted my type]
- This followed with an extended stint as an ENFJ 6w7, 9w8, 3w4 [where I had quite a few people relate to me to the point where I ended up losing a couple of friendships when I finally started really obsessing over my real type]
- I went with ENFJ 9w8, 6w7, 3w4 for a while but it didn't seem right and other posters pointed it out to me [while there were still some who believed it]
- Another really short-stint as an ENFJ 4w5 really brought out the doubters
- This was followed by a not-so-lengthy stint as an ENFJ 368 [when I realized that I was showing more unhealthy traits of the 9 which indicated disintegration of 3] which I changed to 369 because I always had more of a withdrawn nature. But never quite related to the "relate to the world" aspect of the 369 and felt I was much too dark and surreal for a typical 369 and started researching 359 instead. I also found a test from last year where I had tested 5w6 first and for no reason at all discarded it back then.
- And the shit really hit the ceiling when I finally realized that I've been a 3w4 disintegrated to 9 ENTP in an inferior Si grip for more than a year. My other fixes are 5w6 and 9w1.
I think a lot of people started thinking that I'm fake by that point and I have been poorly misjudged when throughout my type changes I had consistently told people that I'm being as honest as I possibly could be. Now I've finally got it right as a sx/sp 3w4 ENTP [with an overly developed Fe and neglected Ti]. It took more than a year, but I finally got it right.
So -- I've been terribly wrong with my self-exploration --- but finally got it right. However, I did pay the price with a few lost relationships in the process. But it doesn't matter. My discoveries are personal and other people can judge me however they like. I have no regrets.
Oh .. and I used this to determine my sub-wings:
http://www.typologycentral.com/forums/enneagram/54152-subwings.html