I used astrology for me and my on again and and off again crush.....I remember her birthday because back when we were in the same city as kids, we celebrated our birthdays on the same day one year at Sunday School after i found out in a conversation that we shared the same birthday. I also figured out her birth city because her older brother is from that city in a foreign country and I heard from my mother that she was born in that country, and I know what time (around what time) she was born due to a conversation I remember us having.....I'm not going to share the link, as that would be sharing personal info, but here's a copy paste:
The following aspects between planets concern the possible relationships between two charts: especially the emotional and romantic relationship, but also aspects on social, intellectual, and spiritual levels.
The values next to the orbs in the chart above are part of a rating system. Keep in mind that these figures serve only as a possible guideline to which aspects may be considered easy or challenging. Analysis of a relationship is of course very complex. While some aspects can be considered, on their own, difficult for most, some people will have an easier time with them, and the same is true of easy aspects. As well, all relationships will, and should, have a mix of easy and challenging aspects.
Always use your own logic and intuition. This is the case for anything you read in the report, on the site, on other sites, and in books. These are guidelines and possibilities only, and are not meant to pass judgment on a relationship. Read more about these combinations on Cafe Astrology (Synastry/Relationship Astrology category), on other astrology sites, and in astrology books.
143 () Conjunction () Sun - Sun
Positive aspect: It's an excellent aspect for a union because neither has to explain to the other about his or her life goals and overall personality. The two people complement each other in basic ways. Although every relationship has its struggles and conflicts, this aspect helps strengthen your relationship because there is an overall understanding and you support one another at the end of the day.
131 () Trine () Sun - Mars
Positive aspect: Pure sexual attraction can unite the couple. They feel as if they have an ideal partner. They will be energetic, full of life and can undertake things together on a professional level or travel together on adventurous, unpredictable journeys. They respect each other's goals and drives, and don't stand in the way of their attempts to achieve their goals. Their body rhythms match well, and they share a basic physical bond that is hard to break. Energizing.
126 ( ) Conjunction () Mercury - Jupiter
Positive aspect: An ideal couple, prosperous, happy, good intellectual understanding, great confidence in each other, a successful family life.
-108 () Opposition () Moon - Jupiter
Challenging aspect: They go well together, but might experience emotional ups and downs, particularly if they live together. A life together that can be stormy and with its bright spots - sometimes really bright - but they tend to stay together because they are nevertheless made to understand each other.
-107 () Square () Sun - Pluto
Challenging aspect: A great attraction might unite the couple, but this relationship is unlikely to be enitrely healthy. The Pluto person tries to change the Sun person, which is not at all appreciated, and this leads to conflict. If the relationship ends, much bitterness and anger might be the result.
104 () Conjunction () Mercury - Jupiter
Positive aspect: An ideal couple, prosperous, happy, good intellectual understanding, great confidence in each other, a successful family life.
99 () Trine () Sun - Mars
Positive aspect: Pure sexual attraction can unite the couple. They feel as if they have an ideal partner. They will be energetic, full of life and can undertake things together on a professional level or travel together on adventurous, unpredictable journeys. They respect each other's goals and drives, and don't stand in the way of their attempts to achieve their goals. Their body rhythms match well, and they share a basic physical bond that is hard to break. Energizing.
96 () Conjunction () Mercury - Mercury
Positive aspect: Favorable for all types of communication. It is so easy to get the ideas flowing. Great mental energy between the two. They respect each other's minds.
-81 () Square () Sun - Pluto
Challenging aspect: A great attraction might unite the couple, but this relationship is unlikely to be enitrely healthy. The Pluto person tries to change the Sun person, which is not at all appreciated, and this leads to conflict. If the relationship ends, much bitterness and anger might be the result.
70 ()Conjunction () Venus - Venus
Positive aspect: Complete respect for each other's romantic style. They don't easily offend each other and instinctively understand what makes the other person happy. Conflicts arise, but they are generally smoothed over with ease, as there is good will between them. Very good aspect for a successful union. Love, gaiety, understanding.
64 () Trine () Moon - Neptune
Positive aspect: An almost magical bond will unite them. Perfect harmony. There is something MORE to this relationship. It inspires the imagination, and there is a magical feeling of acceptance. There is much devotion here, especially on the part of the Moon person. Spiritual tenderness and romantic warmth between them. Their relationship encourages imagination in both people. This stems from an underlying acceptance of each other, which translates into the feeling that they are free to express their spiritual, imaginative sides without fear in each other's presence. Unconditional love, which is very rare in romantic partnerships.
58() Trine () Venus - Pluto
Positive aspect: Great passionate affair, very intense and transforming. They feel that the relationship forces them to grow.
51 () Sextile () Jupiter - Neptune
Positive/Supportive aspect: A potential union. This is unlikely to be a defining factor in compatibility, so you need to look at the other aspects. This is a supportive aspect.
-50 () Square () Saturn - Neptune
Challenging aspect: While the Saturn person can help organize or direct the Neptune person, there may be some resentment.
47 () Sextile () Jupiter - Neptune
Positive/Supportive aspect: A potential union. This is unlikely to be a defining factor in compatibility, so you need to look at the other aspects. This is a supportive aspect.
45 () Sextile () Venus - Uranus
Positive aspect: Union or love will be very strong, not especially intellectual, but sensual and full of romanticism and originality. You could find that you encourage one another to drop many of your inhibitions. This relationship often encourages and/or respects independence and freedom.
44 () Trine () Venus - Pluto
Positive aspect: Great passionate affair, very intense and transforming. They feel that the relationship forces them to grow.
31 () Conjunction () Mars - Mars
Positive aspect: A life together in which each will desire the other and satisfy each other's sexual needs. Frustration levels tend to be minimal, and this helps the couple develop a pleasant atmosphere between them. They may do great things together or simply inspire one another.
sorry had to edit out the names....but her name was first in each one