Thank you both of you. I really enjoyed both examples you offered. I never would have imagined that NTs would be very attracted to fiction.
And now I'd like some real fromage - but in NT speak.
For example, give me a proposal scene where both characters are NTs. Describe what they are wearing and how they are looking at each other, but in the way an NT would experience it. And then have them ride off into the sunset.
Or a first kiss scene with the thoughts of both people about each other running through their heads for the reader to enjoy.
LOL. Honestly, I don't know if I see myself "riding off into the sunset" or totally smitten by an INTP woman. I would DEFINITELY want to meet one in person because I know from interactions with my aunt that we could go on making each other laugh all night until we collapsed of exhaustion, but romantically, I see a scene like you described with an NF.
This is totally off the cuff and well after bed time, but uhhh - let's see here:
Knowing that she had always dreamed, since a young girl, of overlooking Lake Templeton at sunset, he woke her up a little earlier than normal this Saturday morning. Hot coffee in hand, just the way she liked it, he said, "I wanna take you to Templeton today. I want you to see that sunset you've always wanted to see." She hopped up. "Really? Today?"
"Indeed! Take an hour to get what you need for the day and let's make it happen."
Like a little girl all over again, she got in the shower and got ready with a smile from ear to ear. She thought about what she would take, careful to remember everything that would make the experience the best it could be.
As they made the six hour journey up the windy coastline, they just talked and played some road games. He let her be quiet and it didn't feel awkward at all. She enjoyed that. And so did he. They could talk when they wanted - no pressure to keep a conversation going. They each felt at home in their own skin, enjoying the coast, and drifting off into their own thoughts and their own worlds, all the while sitting right next to each other. It was sort of like that storybook romance that we all hear about, but it was also different. It was just comfortable. It was peaceful. It was nice.
They finally arrived just in time to see the sun begin to fade over the lake. They got out of the car and she ran toward a spot she had seen from the road - a spot that would give her the very best view of the sun calling it a day. He followed behind, finding it hard to not feel some of her enthusiasm. He was enjoying himself, but he had never seen someone so excited to see a sunset. It made him happy that he had made the decision to bring her here. Her happiness, her innocent joy was rubbing off on him and they were both happy. Together. Together and happy. As the sky grew darker with each second and the sun slowly inched out of sight, there they were - HAPPY. She took a deep breath as if she wanted to inhale the moment and always have it with her. "This is amazing," she said. "This...right here...is what life is all about! Moments like this." He nodded in agreement and what happened next is perhaps better left for a more mature audience......
LOL..........