Light casts no shadow.I've been thinking of this for a while now. Thought I'd see what you lot thought.
Right I'm placing my type as INTP (I know, controversial but there you go) so my "opposite" is ESFJ right? Well as that is my shadow profile it should mean that at some level I run parallel to that type, should it not? Ergo the type is familiar to me.
What I was trying to think of was the type which I should (according to theory) have the most difficulty of finding common ground with, the type I'm most likely to find uncofortable to be around (at least at first).
Firstly you have the idea of switching around the function preferences as per figuring out your shadow. INTP becomes ESFJ, INTJ becomes ESFP and so on. But I figure that's missing something when trying to think what type would be your opposite (ie has no points of agreement).
IJ and EP are the same as they both have their perception function first.
IP and EJ are the same as they both have their judging function first.
Ergo would it not an ESFP be more the opposite of an INTP than an ESFJ would be? Shoudn't an ESFP and an INTP have more difficulty communicating and getting along?
Whaddya reckon?
If the light is all functions combined then the shadow cast by a person is those functions which they block out (to some extent). It would seem to me that people embrace their shadow though. It's the functions which are parallel to thier own, but flipped, which seem hardest to grasp.Light casts no shadow.
Try telling Dom. My example of ISTJ is something he doesn't like too much. In fact it's the only person I've ever known him categorically not get on with... ever!
Interesting! Methinks you have a point there.If the light is all functions combined then the shadow cast by a person is those functions which they block out (to some extent). It would seem to me that people embrace their shadow though. It's the functions which are parallel to thier own, but flipped, which seem hardest to grasp.
I cannot operate like an ISTJ but I can emulate certain ENTJ characteristics.
The point being is that it would be harder for an IP to do IJ than EJ and yet their "official" 'opposite' type is their direct opposite or shadow type which for an IP is EJ.
Funny, I know and get along with three ISTJs, which is the most number of any one type I know!![]()
It's your own thinking extrapolated ol boy. I recall you saying repeatedly that IP is EJ. Well that much is true so really the opposite of IP would not be EJ but IJ or EP... Which one you pick... or perhaps there should be two... is another argument.Interesting! Methinks you have a point there.
The ISTJ is singular, yes. Never seen such singularity enywhere else!I think that this ISTJ is particularly "singular". The whole habit of completely being blind to other's expectations, wants and needs seems to rub Dom the wrong way.
It's your own thinking extrapolated ol boy. I recall you saying repeatedly that IP is EJ. Well that much is true so really the opposite of IP would not be EJ but IJ or EP... Which one you pick... or perhaps there should be two... is another argument.
I did the thing numberwise.The ISTJ is singular, yes. Never seen such singularity enywhere else!
About the J/P ..
Yes. The E/I shift brings about the J/P shift.
Please read the elfinchilde post in the Puddingland.
There is no one or the other.
I see elfinchilde and you discuss essentially the same thing. From another standpoint perhaps.. but it only adds to understanding.
The change E/I is not in the loci!
Why do they then change it in the loci?
That's what I'm saying. ESFJ is part of INTP. ESFP is further away, in terms of preferences, than ESFJ.I think it's ridiculous to say that ISFP is my 'alien type'.. based on my interactions with other people though, I would say that my alien type is ESFP not ESFJ. I even took the Cognitive Processes test and then reversed my answers and got ESFP..
I like this term "singular". It saves on soo many insultsThe ISTJ is singular, yes. Never seen such singularity enywhere else!
Thus far I'm with you and I'll go hunt down that elusive winged creature... once pinned to a tree she shall have no choice but to reveal her schemes to me!!!About the J/P ..
Yes. The E/I shift brings about the J/P shift.
Please read the elfinchilde post in the Puddingland.
There is no one or the other.
I see elfinchilde and you discuss essentially the same thing. From another standpoint perhaps.. but it only adds to understanding.
I don't understand quite what point your pointing to there. As far as I grasp it E/I changes both when figuring out the shadow type and functions... are you saying it should not when finding the alien type? So INTP's alien type would not be ESFP but ISFJ?The change E/I is not in the loci!
Why do they then change it in the loci?
You will most assuredly lose me with that parralel operation!! Never can follow how the numbers form a matrix instead of just a list of series.I did the thing numberwise.
INTP = ENTJ???Now, if the loci does not change the number order does not change.
It does not change.
What changes?
The viewpoint.
IJ is EP. EP is IJ.
Where?
In the loci.
What is the loci?
It is what is.
The original picture is called the negative.
A misconception.
We turn the E/I around.
Then we turn the J/P around.
A mistake.
It is already around.
I write this assuming I'm ISTP.
ISTP: Ti Se Ni Fe
If I take the shadow of each function and reverse the order, I get INFP.
INFP: Fi Ne Si Te
INFPs are attractive, but I don't understand why they do some of the things they do, particularly when it comes to people. If they are happy, they can be quite pleasant, and I often find myself wanting to give them a hug. If they are unhappy, it's like they're surrounded by this vacuum of negativity, and I want to avoid them at all costs.
On the other hand, if I keep the order of the functions the same, I get my shadow function, ESTJ.
ESTJ: Te Si Ne Fi
I don't know many confirmed ESTJs in real life, but they seem to take themselves quite seriously. I get the impression that they don't exactly color outside the lines, ever. I can respect their dedication, and they might be useful as co-workers, but I can't imagine I would ever interact with them outside of a work environment.
If I keep the functions as-is, but reverse the order, I get ENFJ.
ENFJ: Fe Ni Se Ti
One of my ex-girlfriends claims ENFJ, so I have a little more experience with this type. She was quite fun, and would always be up for an adventure, but IMO was overly concerned about feelings. After a while, I got tired of her constantly needing that kind of affirmation (no, I don't hate you just because we haven't talked all day). We are still friends, and I think the relationship works quite well on that level.
I thought to get the shadow functions you just change the e/i around, leaving the order the same.?
I thought that ISTP's shadow IS ENFJ? Are we using the same system? Do you know your working to be correct?
(An honest question, most of my "knowledge" of shadow types is based on induction.)
The ISTP-ISFP thing is probably NF vs ST. My SO is an ESTP and she really distrusts INFPs. She can't understand them.
Have you ever met an INFJ? If my thinking is correct they may well send you loopy (not that I actually know any ISTPs though, thinking about it).
As far as I am aware you take the function order for your profile, read it backwards and then match it to another profile. Your shadow, under that system, would be ENFJ.I thought to get the shadow functions you just change the e/i around, leaving the order the same.
The Nature of the Functions. That is the Elfie thread in Puddingland.I like this term "singular". It saves on soo many insults
Thus far I'm with you and I'll go hunt down that elusive winged creature... once pinned to a tree she shall have no choice but to reveal her schemes to me!!!
I don't understand quite what point your pointing to there. As far as I grasp it E/I changes both when figuring out the shadow type and functions... are you saying it should not when finding the alien type? So INTP's alien type would not be ESFP but ISFJ?
You will most assuredly lose me with that parralel operation!! Never can follow how the numbers form a matrix instead of just a list of series.
INTP = ENTJ???
Lost.... sooo lost....
Right, important question, what are you labelling as the loci? The word, as I udnerstand it, equates to a labelled point in space (or in this case the functions and type). Without labelling it I feel like your pointing at your screen and saying "There it is!!" but not communicating it in words on the screen and hence losing me royally!!
(Ie, I think you've got something... but I've no idea what it is yet)
Two of my best friends have been ESFPs and I hate being around all ESFJs for more than one second. Mark me down as "I'm gonna have to go ahead and...Disagree with you there."Ergo would it not an ESFP be more the opposite of an INTP than an ESFJ would be? Shoudn't an ESFP and an INTP have more difficulty communicating and getting along?
In our part of the world Xander is Sasha.Okay I'm soo printing that lot out Mr Wildcat. I'm thinking that you just called INTPc an ST forum... I'd agree there but the rest lost me.
I need more time to read.