JoSunshine
That's my name biotch!
- Joined
- Dec 17, 2009
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- MBTI Type
- eNfj
- Enneagram
- 2
I need a lot of alone time myself.
I work by myself from home and I love it! Too many people for too long drives me
I need a lot of alone time myself.
Yes and no. If it's someone close to me, that is my natural response. Very strongly; in fact I feel their emotions myself and am compelled to try to remedy it. It's been bad in the past, I've taken on emotions of people around me who were depressed when there was absolutely nothing I could or should do.1. see someone feeling down and feel that it is your duty to help them out somehow.
YES! to the organization. My desk at home becomes a slight mess at home during the week and feel like I can't think until I clean it off. Not so much for colorful photos though. Flashy messy things aren't my style at all. I am creative through my wallpaper.2. have a neat/organized desk and have tons of colorful photos & art posted in your cubical or office.
Nope. I have no sympathy for them. They make more than three times the money per hour than I do, and completely take advantage of society to fund their meth habits.3. feel really sad when you see unfortunate people sleeping on the streets.
Well... it's become more a belief that I take for granted basically everybody doesn't understand me. All of my friends at school and work don't get me. And that's ok. Something I long for, and dream of but believe doesn't exist. Until an INTJ friend I met recently, who "gets" (!!) much of my deeper perspectives.4. get butt hurt & feel misunderstood when people dont get you.
Nope. Listening to people constantly complaining or talking about personal drama wears me out. I think it's stupid. There are so many more important things in life... with life, passion, *real* things that matter. I put on headphones and tune them out.8. try to diffuse drama in group settings by taking charge, making a huge effort to try and harmonize the group.
On a subconscious level. Constantly. Very difficult to learn to train yourself to listen, to be what you need, to allow yourself to want, to experience...9. put others needs ahead of your own.
Nope. Non-emotional in movies... never really emotional about relationships either. Until the guy I recently met, where it's a deeper intensity We are like romeo and juliet.10. sob like a baby when watching sad movies.
Um... I have been told by many I am a natural leader. But I get uncomfortable in that position. I have difficulty not overwhelming people things simple and common sense to me. Then I feel bad and ask them questions trying to listen... and if they're insecure it just exaserbates and they expect me to do all the work.12. are good at leading a group and motivating others.
More!
- You look at the stars, the milky way and dream of dancing in them. You get lost in music and want to become a part of the notes, to lose your being in a piece of the melody. You look at the world in wonderment, how everything works.. the clouds, the beauty...
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You know you're an ENFJ..
- If people say you're just like one of the Stepford Wives. lol
- Teachers jokingly introduce you to the class by saying, "If you don't want to do any work join her team." lol wtf?
- Employers, professors, and coworkers drifting through you life say you have potential and they want to keep up with you. They use your work as examples for future classes.
- You genuinely love people. Those close to you. You freely give compliments when you truly believe them.
- You strive to be the best and demand yourself to have the highest standard of everyone.
- You are constantly searching for a better way, questioning, higher quality, the best of the best...
- You take pieces of everything and the best of all... are a conglomerate personality. People laugh and say you are random.
- You look at the stars, the milky way and dream of dancing in them. You get lost in music and want to become a part of the notes, to lose your being in a piece of the melody. You look at the world in wonderment, how everything works.. the clouds, the beauty...
I love this. I relate to everything. Teachers love to poke fun at me tooo. One used to say that he would throw me out the window. It was even funnier because I have a physical handicap and it's so non-PC.
2. You want to comfort the dog so she won't be embarassed about having an accident while cussing under your breath about cleaning it up.
This is so true for me. It's like, "the dog already feels bad enough without adding me into the mix, but man! Why I gotta deal with this?"
I want to take you all home with me!!!
1. When you constantly correct other's social mistakes.
2. When you start a religious cult.
Indeed the bolded is such a dang pain in the butt, as types like ISTP are absolutely horrible socially (perhaps the most socially awkward of all types?), and the opposite type, ENFJs are oh so normal and mainstream as well as absolute social butterflies who can't shut their big fat mouths, and they want you to follow all of their stupid conventions like a weak and pathetic insect. This type is horrifying beyond measure, even more so than ESFJs, and that's really saying something!
There's an ESFJ hate thread linked below (I really hope someone has the guts to start an ENFJ hate thread!):
http://www.typologycentral.com/forums/sj-guardhouse/35069-esfj-hate-thread.html