Yeah, I mean, I can be both sweet and feminine. But probably not in the traditional sense. I'm not going to be all, "OMG WHAT A BIG STRONG MAN! HOW DO YOU THINK UP ALL THE STUFF YOU THINK UP!?" I'm going to approach a guy, intellectually speaking, the same way I would a girl friend of mine. My relationships are always going to be partnerships of equals. Some guys just don't a) want that, or b) know what to do with that.
Objectively speaking, I think I'm very kind, and I can be very supportive. But it's just not in a "you have a penis, so you must be smarter and better than me" way. I don't think I'm "nurturing." That sounds maternal, to me.
btw, I think Synarch has always said he wanted an INFJ chick. It's come up a lot. Edit: Having read that post, it sounds like he's saying that INTJ/ENTP could work, but that he prefers more nurturing than an INTJ generally gives.