Describe your upbringing. Did it have any kind of religious or structured influence? How did you respond to it?
It did, my parents are catholics but they are not very active on it, and weren't much strict about it either. I got baptized when I was young, went to church a few times, we would do some religious rituals like lightening a candle every year and I still ask for their blessing every night before sleeping, but more because I think it's a way to show care, I'm not religious at all. I didn't care about religion and I went to catholic classes for a few weeks, then I just stopped and my mom didn't mind. I doubted catholicism since young, and despite engaging with it's practices I consider myself to have never followed a religion. I told my parents about it, and my mom was a bit scared, but then she got used to it.
What do you do as a job or as a career (if you have one)? Do you like it? Why or why not?
Well I don't work now but I'm on university, and I'm doing Aesthetics! I don't know if it's called like this in english speaking countries- but I study Beauty basically, makeup, hair, skin and muscular treatments, procedures etc. I do like it a lot! I'm soooo excited for us to get over the theory part and jump to practice! I've been interested especially in colors and hair for a long time, that's why sometimes I hair style for my friends and family (and I do my own too). I also enjoy procedures so much, I don't know why, but I thought of being a surgeon too and I highly consider working with dentristy too in the future.
If you had to spend an entire weekend by yourself, how would you feel? Would you feel lonely or refreshed?
Bad. Bad bad bad I am frightened of being alone. Even some hours alone gets me extremely anxious, also when I'm alone sometimes my thoughts get dark and I hate it- company keeps me calm and also increases my productivity. I'm always more energetic after talking with people. So, lonely for sure. But just so I'm not too dramatic about this, I probably can endure a day.. it wouldn't be the best, but I'd occupy myself with other stuff to get distracted (like games and typology). ALSO if my cats are with me, it's easier. But since you said alone, I'm OF COURSE considering my cats too c:
What kinds of activities do you prefer? Do you like, and are you good at sports? Do you enjoy any other outdoor or indoor activities?
I think I'm quite versatile in this area. I like indoors and outdoors activities very much! Like, playing cards and games is a fun plan, and also going out, shopping, driving, I like skateboarding, and other sports too I just like joining people in such activities, so it could be anything! Tennis, running, idk. Going out to eat and OMG going to the beach or the pool, are all activities I much enjoy. I'll try not to list them all- but it's tempting to think.
How curious are you? Do you have more ideas then you can execute? What are your curiosities about? What are your ideas about - is it environmental or conceptual, and can you please elaborate?
I'm quite curious? I don't go berserk about it though, like searching the whole internet for random topics just to learn, or questioning every single thing in front of me. I do always try to look behind what's obvious though. Sometimes weird questions get to my mind, even if not often, sometimes I only ask them because I want to make someone else smile though lol I would say I'm more wise or intelligent than curious. I do not believe things easily, and I think it is very important to keep a critical mind, and notice your own personal biases, which I believe to be undesirable. There is nothing in particular I'm curious about, it depends. But I guess sometimes I notice myself being caught up in information regarding the universe, it can be due to my anxiety though- I'm very fearful of death and the unknown (where do we go after we die? is there any meaning to things at all, if we are gonna lose it sometime? if they are going to be destroyed?) those kinds of questions usually start my existential crisis
Would you enjoy taking on a leadership position? Do you think you would be good at it? What would your leadership style be?
I enjoy taking leadership only when I feel confident and prepared for what I'm doing and that's... very rarely lol. So usually leadership stresses me more than I enjoy it. There are some good times, but then it bothers me to be in a position where I'm the one who does the decision making, I feel uncomfortable showing others my preferences sometimes, and I'm more comfortable if they themselves say to prefer that thing, so I can agree with it. I tried to find out why I act like this, if I'm scared of being judged, but I've always been quite inhibited about personal preferences. For some things, I express myself however I want, and for others, I act like this. I don't get it.
Are you coordinated? Why do you feel as if you are or are not? Do you enjoy working with your hands in some form? Describe your activity?
Kinda? I do ignore my surroundings and so I can be forgetful and trip over things, or get hit. But, I was very praised when young for my arts, and I also have done some paintings, which my family praises a lot. It's not that difficult for me to learn dance choreographies too, so maybe I'm quite coordinated. I enjoy working with my hands! But sometimes it's hard for me to get in the mood, and I procrastinate a lot (that U in Big Five ain't for nothing). Some details of my cosplays are also handmade by me.
Are you artistic? If yes, describe your art? If you are not particularly artistic but can appreciate art please likewise describe what forums of art you enjoy. Please explain your answer.
I think it would be weird to say no now- but personally, not much. I believe there are people more creative than I, who are very subjective in their art, I generally just do little things I like, it's not very creative work. I enjoy mostly manga/manhwa, anime, games and paintings! I do like music too, but I know too little about it. Actually, I just listen to the songs I like, sometimes I don't even know who is singing, and it's like, a song I heard dozens of times!
What's your opinion about the past, present, and future? How do you deal with them?
I cherish the past, and I enjoy looking back and remembering everything I went through, though I hardly remember any details, and my memory sucks lol, I'm very grateful when I have friends near who can help me recall all the wonderful stuff! I believe what is done is done, we can't go back, so we shouldn't torture ourselves with the past. I can remember my misfortunes and embarassing moments with a smile and acceptance. The present is precious. It's the most important thing we have. I won't say I do much justice to these words, as I waste time a lot doing nothing really productive, but I believe there is no happiness compared as to when you feel yourself completely in the moment, removed from anything else, and enjoy the breeze of the air, or the silly conversations going around. The smile in people's faces, realizing how precious that moment is, and how fortunate you are to be able to enjoy it. The future, I don't know how to describe my relation to it. I can say most of my anxiety is directed to it. I'm afraid I won't be able to guarantee a good future for myself, and I try to take care of mine and others decisions regarding what to do and what paths to take. I'm greatly emotionally intuitive, and so I usually am good at giving advices and realizing the cautious path, prioritizing it. I like to look at the future with optimism and an open mind, and so I try to keep this dispositon the most, despite my fears!
How do you act when others request your help to do something (anything)? If you would decide to help them, why would you do so?
I consider my availability, if I don't have anything else at hands sure why not. But I don't like much when people request a lot of super easy things they could have done themselves to others. Because if you can do something... why would you bother other person with it instead of doing it yourself? If I decided to help them, it's because... I realized they needed help? Or sometimes I realize they don't even need it, but end up doing it anyway to avoid useless discord
Do you need logical consistency in your life?
I don't know how much I need it, but I do appreciate it. When someone's thoughts are too inconsistent I usually notice it and try to counter it, so as to prevent misconceptions. I try to approach new ideas unbiasedly, instead of judging it quickly.
How important is efficiency and productivity to you?
It should be more important in my hierarchy, to be honest... I'm guilty of sacrificing productivity. I either postpone too much doing something, or I start doing it and take annoying paths instead of the most practical one. I get distracted too easily, and run away from my responsibilities (chores, or university works for example) till I can't anymore
Do you control others, even if indirectly? How and why do you do that?
A bit. It's almost entirely indirectly though. To avoid them from commiting mistakes, or hurting others, I usually take the role of manipulating the conservation's rhythm from the shadows (uuuuu). I'm also very sweet in general. Some people have a soft spot for me, that sometimes can be a great weapon to work things out - believe me or not! Some problem someone would try to fix forcefully or yelling, I respond with diplomacy and kindly, and it usually works.
What are your hobbies? Why do you like them?
Gaming: I enjoy it because
I mean it's fun! The competition, getting stronger, seeing your progress, meeting people and playing together, the beautiful animations and storylines, everything basically
Anime/Manga/Manhwa: The storylines and animations. The soundtracks!!!! The voice actors' dedications... it hooks me more than movies with real people I swear!
Dancing: The great, probably my main hobby (though is also needing of more dedication, I've been very demotivated lately). I love dancing, seeing your progress, it's also something which I can focus on more visually, like my own visual, expression and body so it's somehow satisfying, especially dancing with others is so fun.
Painting: Relaxing (which is unusual and nice for me), seeing the work you idealized in your head being brought to reality through your own hands!!! Feels nice, I get very proud of it and sometimes I get so excited I can staaare at my work for hours lol
Skateboarding: I NEED to put more effort into this one!!! Cause I really enjoy it. I bought a whole protection kit because I want to fall and go through all the process but I also do not want to get hurt *heart*
What is your learning style? What kind of learning environments do you struggle with most? Why do you like/struggle with these learning styles? Do you prefer classes involving memorization, logic, creativity, or your physical senses?
I learn more when it is something interesting, I have a huge block for subjects I have no interest on (chemistry...). I struggle to learn when there is not much instruction, when I have something else more interesting on my mind and I can't concentrate... My learning style is one where I can visualize the concept and apply it on many cases, ex. a mathematical formula. You understand how it works and once you recognize a question needing such solution, you apply it and find a definite answer. Explaining is not a strength of mine. I can talk things from my head, trying to explain a concept, but it would lack synthesis and talk much more than needed as I'm doing right now in this answer. I like anticipating things, like on chess. That's why math is much more fun than biology for example. I prefer classes involving logic and physical senses I guess.
How good are you at strategizing? Do you easily break up projects into manageable tasks? Or do you have a tendency to wing projects and improvise as you go?
Wing projects and improvise as I go.
What are your aspirations in life, professionally and personally?
Professionaly: I hope to reach financial stability, doing some work that is not too restrictive and tiring, and allows me to spare some flexibility. Last thing I want is a life defined by work!
Personally: I hope to grow as someone who can be proud of my accomplishments, who knows she is not alone and have amazing friends and family, I want to be able to show gratitude for my parents who did a lot of sacrifices for me, and my happiness. I want them to be happy. And of course, I want me to be happy, healthy and free.
What are your fears? What makes you uncomfortable? What do you hate? Why?
I fear death, being alone, dependency, I fear not being able to reach that steady future I mentioned. Having people depend on me like they can't live without me is uncomfortable. It's uncomfortable to follow my desires without taking into account how other people will feel. I do not like rude people, and inconsequential behavior. Injustice and lack of gratitude. Also I hate being in a negative mood, I start criticizing me when I throw a tantrum, I don't think that kind of attitude is good so I feel ashamed. I try to hear people out and help them on theirs, but it took a lot of time for me to begin opening up to others more easily, without feeling like they don't want to hear it. Nowadays, I'm surprised at how I sometimes overshare actually lol
What do the "highs" in your life look like?
When I'm happy and the people around me are too, everything is going well, I'm in control of my responsibilities and don't need to worry so much about things going wrong. I'm able to balance my projects and relations, and have lazy time!
What do the "lows" in your life look like?
The mental health of my loved ones is deteriorating, everything is messy and a disorder, I begin to feel powerless and exhausted, I can't find motivation to do anything I like. I don't reach out for people, get overly anxious and sensitive, can get angry at minor issues, don't feel like I have control over my life.
How attached are you to reality? Do you daydream often, or do you pay attention to what's around you? If you do daydream, are you aware of your surroundings while you do so?
Imagine you are alone in a blank, empty room. There is nothing for you to do and no one to talk to. What do you think about?
Half-half I'd say, I pay attention to other people, but not much my surroundings. When I daydream, I still am able to snap back to reality like when someone calls me, but I can be really oblivious to the colors of things, names, dates, I can forget what I was just talking about, or how someone looked like. A blank, empty room. I would think about that room in front of me, what I feel about it, how exquisite of an experience that is. I'd be fascinated by the color. Maybe stand up, dance, hum, roll around (since the walls and floor are the same color... that'd be fun), scream? laugh. Then after some time, maybe I'd start thinking about life and the future and start getting scared and wanting to go out lol
How long do you take to make an important decision? And do you change your mind once you've made it?
Hahahahaha long. I can ruminate a lot. And at such moments, I don't think I can trust myself much, but it's hard to let other people decide too. I want to choose an option that will be best for everyone but many times I don't know which one that is and that is sooo exhausting. I don't want to regret anything, and make bad choices. I change my mind if a better option shows up, and sometimes I give up for something else.
How long do you take to process your emotions?
I don't know...? I don't think I process much of my emotions, I tend to go with them and the figuring out happens too unconsciously for me to tell
How important are emotions in your life?
They are very important, a way for us to feel connected and express ourselves. I'm quite sensitive and treat others kindly and try for each situation to end well and happily
Do you ever catch yourself agreeing with others just to appease them and keep the conversation going? How often? Why?
Yes T_T very often I answer others in an affirmative manner when it doesn't coincide with what I think inside. I generally don't lie or conceal my opinions though, I am evasive and can get silent when my opinion contradicts the general opinion, but if asked, I'm sincere and explain my point of view the best I can. If they aren't convinced, it's okay, but I'm not changing what I think unless I'm convinced otherwise. But I do tend to use accomodating expressions
Do you break rules often? Do you think authority should be challenged, or that they know better? If you do break rules, why?
I'm not much of a rule breaker... I've been more of a nice kid since young, I didn't cause much trouble for my parents, teachers, and adult figures. But I'm also not a stickler for convention, I like questioning things and I keep an open mind. I don't respect rules I believe to make absolutely no sense. And if I break them, I don't feel bad at all if I'm sure on what I'm doing. I believe authority should be challenged, we need to do so or else we become oblivious and can be taken advantage of, I don't think authority knows better.
It did, my parents are catholics but they are not very active on it, and weren't much strict about it either. I got baptized when I was young, went to church a few times, we would do some religious rituals like lightening a candle every year and I still ask for their blessing every night before sleeping, but more because I think it's a way to show care, I'm not religious at all. I didn't care about religion and I went to catholic classes for a few weeks, then I just stopped and my mom didn't mind. I doubted catholicism since young, and despite engaging with it's practices I consider myself to have never followed a religion. I told my parents about it, and my mom was a bit scared, but then she got used to it.
What do you do as a job or as a career (if you have one)? Do you like it? Why or why not?
Well I don't work now but I'm on university, and I'm doing Aesthetics! I don't know if it's called like this in english speaking countries- but I study Beauty basically, makeup, hair, skin and muscular treatments, procedures etc. I do like it a lot! I'm soooo excited for us to get over the theory part and jump to practice! I've been interested especially in colors and hair for a long time, that's why sometimes I hair style for my friends and family (and I do my own too). I also enjoy procedures so much, I don't know why, but I thought of being a surgeon too and I highly consider working with dentristy too in the future.
If you had to spend an entire weekend by yourself, how would you feel? Would you feel lonely or refreshed?
Bad. Bad bad bad I am frightened of being alone. Even some hours alone gets me extremely anxious, also when I'm alone sometimes my thoughts get dark and I hate it- company keeps me calm and also increases my productivity. I'm always more energetic after talking with people. So, lonely for sure. But just so I'm not too dramatic about this, I probably can endure a day.. it wouldn't be the best, but I'd occupy myself with other stuff to get distracted (like games and typology). ALSO if my cats are with me, it's easier. But since you said alone, I'm OF COURSE considering my cats too c:
What kinds of activities do you prefer? Do you like, and are you good at sports? Do you enjoy any other outdoor or indoor activities?
I think I'm quite versatile in this area. I like indoors and outdoors activities very much! Like, playing cards and games is a fun plan, and also going out, shopping, driving, I like skateboarding, and other sports too I just like joining people in such activities, so it could be anything! Tennis, running, idk. Going out to eat and OMG going to the beach or the pool, are all activities I much enjoy. I'll try not to list them all- but it's tempting to think.
How curious are you? Do you have more ideas then you can execute? What are your curiosities about? What are your ideas about - is it environmental or conceptual, and can you please elaborate?
I'm quite curious? I don't go berserk about it though, like searching the whole internet for random topics just to learn, or questioning every single thing in front of me. I do always try to look behind what's obvious though. Sometimes weird questions get to my mind, even if not often, sometimes I only ask them because I want to make someone else smile though lol I would say I'm more wise or intelligent than curious. I do not believe things easily, and I think it is very important to keep a critical mind, and notice your own personal biases, which I believe to be undesirable. There is nothing in particular I'm curious about, it depends. But I guess sometimes I notice myself being caught up in information regarding the universe, it can be due to my anxiety though- I'm very fearful of death and the unknown (where do we go after we die? is there any meaning to things at all, if we are gonna lose it sometime? if they are going to be destroyed?) those kinds of questions usually start my existential crisis
Would you enjoy taking on a leadership position? Do you think you would be good at it? What would your leadership style be?
I enjoy taking leadership only when I feel confident and prepared for what I'm doing and that's... very rarely lol. So usually leadership stresses me more than I enjoy it. There are some good times, but then it bothers me to be in a position where I'm the one who does the decision making, I feel uncomfortable showing others my preferences sometimes, and I'm more comfortable if they themselves say to prefer that thing, so I can agree with it. I tried to find out why I act like this, if I'm scared of being judged, but I've always been quite inhibited about personal preferences. For some things, I express myself however I want, and for others, I act like this. I don't get it.
Are you coordinated? Why do you feel as if you are or are not? Do you enjoy working with your hands in some form? Describe your activity?
Kinda? I do ignore my surroundings and so I can be forgetful and trip over things, or get hit. But, I was very praised when young for my arts, and I also have done some paintings, which my family praises a lot. It's not that difficult for me to learn dance choreographies too, so maybe I'm quite coordinated. I enjoy working with my hands! But sometimes it's hard for me to get in the mood, and I procrastinate a lot (that U in Big Five ain't for nothing). Some details of my cosplays are also handmade by me.
Are you artistic? If yes, describe your art? If you are not particularly artistic but can appreciate art please likewise describe what forums of art you enjoy. Please explain your answer.
I think it would be weird to say no now- but personally, not much. I believe there are people more creative than I, who are very subjective in their art, I generally just do little things I like, it's not very creative work. I enjoy mostly manga/manhwa, anime, games and paintings! I do like music too, but I know too little about it. Actually, I just listen to the songs I like, sometimes I don't even know who is singing, and it's like, a song I heard dozens of times!
What's your opinion about the past, present, and future? How do you deal with them?
I cherish the past, and I enjoy looking back and remembering everything I went through, though I hardly remember any details, and my memory sucks lol, I'm very grateful when I have friends near who can help me recall all the wonderful stuff! I believe what is done is done, we can't go back, so we shouldn't torture ourselves with the past. I can remember my misfortunes and embarassing moments with a smile and acceptance. The present is precious. It's the most important thing we have. I won't say I do much justice to these words, as I waste time a lot doing nothing really productive, but I believe there is no happiness compared as to when you feel yourself completely in the moment, removed from anything else, and enjoy the breeze of the air, or the silly conversations going around. The smile in people's faces, realizing how precious that moment is, and how fortunate you are to be able to enjoy it. The future, I don't know how to describe my relation to it. I can say most of my anxiety is directed to it. I'm afraid I won't be able to guarantee a good future for myself, and I try to take care of mine and others decisions regarding what to do and what paths to take. I'm greatly emotionally intuitive, and so I usually am good at giving advices and realizing the cautious path, prioritizing it. I like to look at the future with optimism and an open mind, and so I try to keep this dispositon the most, despite my fears!
How do you act when others request your help to do something (anything)? If you would decide to help them, why would you do so?
I consider my availability, if I don't have anything else at hands sure why not. But I don't like much when people request a lot of super easy things they could have done themselves to others. Because if you can do something... why would you bother other person with it instead of doing it yourself? If I decided to help them, it's because... I realized they needed help? Or sometimes I realize they don't even need it, but end up doing it anyway to avoid useless discord
Do you need logical consistency in your life?
I don't know how much I need it, but I do appreciate it. When someone's thoughts are too inconsistent I usually notice it and try to counter it, so as to prevent misconceptions. I try to approach new ideas unbiasedly, instead of judging it quickly.
How important is efficiency and productivity to you?
It should be more important in my hierarchy, to be honest... I'm guilty of sacrificing productivity. I either postpone too much doing something, or I start doing it and take annoying paths instead of the most practical one. I get distracted too easily, and run away from my responsibilities (chores, or university works for example) till I can't anymore
Do you control others, even if indirectly? How and why do you do that?
A bit. It's almost entirely indirectly though. To avoid them from commiting mistakes, or hurting others, I usually take the role of manipulating the conservation's rhythm from the shadows (uuuuu). I'm also very sweet in general. Some people have a soft spot for me, that sometimes can be a great weapon to work things out - believe me or not! Some problem someone would try to fix forcefully or yelling, I respond with diplomacy and kindly, and it usually works.
What are your hobbies? Why do you like them?
Gaming: I enjoy it because
I mean it's fun! The competition, getting stronger, seeing your progress, meeting people and playing together, the beautiful animations and storylines, everything basically
Anime/Manga/Manhwa: The storylines and animations. The soundtracks!!!! The voice actors' dedications... it hooks me more than movies with real people I swear!
Dancing: The great, probably my main hobby (though is also needing of more dedication, I've been very demotivated lately). I love dancing, seeing your progress, it's also something which I can focus on more visually, like my own visual, expression and body so it's somehow satisfying, especially dancing with others is so fun.
Painting: Relaxing (which is unusual and nice for me), seeing the work you idealized in your head being brought to reality through your own hands!!! Feels nice, I get very proud of it and sometimes I get so excited I can staaare at my work for hours lol
Skateboarding: I NEED to put more effort into this one!!! Cause I really enjoy it. I bought a whole protection kit because I want to fall and go through all the process but I also do not want to get hurt *heart*
What is your learning style? What kind of learning environments do you struggle with most? Why do you like/struggle with these learning styles? Do you prefer classes involving memorization, logic, creativity, or your physical senses?
I learn more when it is something interesting, I have a huge block for subjects I have no interest on (chemistry...). I struggle to learn when there is not much instruction, when I have something else more interesting on my mind and I can't concentrate... My learning style is one where I can visualize the concept and apply it on many cases, ex. a mathematical formula. You understand how it works and once you recognize a question needing such solution, you apply it and find a definite answer. Explaining is not a strength of mine. I can talk things from my head, trying to explain a concept, but it would lack synthesis and talk much more than needed as I'm doing right now in this answer. I like anticipating things, like on chess. That's why math is much more fun than biology for example. I prefer classes involving logic and physical senses I guess.
How good are you at strategizing? Do you easily break up projects into manageable tasks? Or do you have a tendency to wing projects and improvise as you go?
Wing projects and improvise as I go.
What are your aspirations in life, professionally and personally?
Professionaly: I hope to reach financial stability, doing some work that is not too restrictive and tiring, and allows me to spare some flexibility. Last thing I want is a life defined by work!
Personally: I hope to grow as someone who can be proud of my accomplishments, who knows she is not alone and have amazing friends and family, I want to be able to show gratitude for my parents who did a lot of sacrifices for me, and my happiness. I want them to be happy. And of course, I want me to be happy, healthy and free.
What are your fears? What makes you uncomfortable? What do you hate? Why?
I fear death, being alone, dependency, I fear not being able to reach that steady future I mentioned. Having people depend on me like they can't live without me is uncomfortable. It's uncomfortable to follow my desires without taking into account how other people will feel. I do not like rude people, and inconsequential behavior. Injustice and lack of gratitude. Also I hate being in a negative mood, I start criticizing me when I throw a tantrum, I don't think that kind of attitude is good so I feel ashamed. I try to hear people out and help them on theirs, but it took a lot of time for me to begin opening up to others more easily, without feeling like they don't want to hear it. Nowadays, I'm surprised at how I sometimes overshare actually lol
What do the "highs" in your life look like?
When I'm happy and the people around me are too, everything is going well, I'm in control of my responsibilities and don't need to worry so much about things going wrong. I'm able to balance my projects and relations, and have lazy time!
What do the "lows" in your life look like?
The mental health of my loved ones is deteriorating, everything is messy and a disorder, I begin to feel powerless and exhausted, I can't find motivation to do anything I like. I don't reach out for people, get overly anxious and sensitive, can get angry at minor issues, don't feel like I have control over my life.
How attached are you to reality? Do you daydream often, or do you pay attention to what's around you? If you do daydream, are you aware of your surroundings while you do so?
Imagine you are alone in a blank, empty room. There is nothing for you to do and no one to talk to. What do you think about?
Half-half I'd say, I pay attention to other people, but not much my surroundings. When I daydream, I still am able to snap back to reality like when someone calls me, but I can be really oblivious to the colors of things, names, dates, I can forget what I was just talking about, or how someone looked like. A blank, empty room. I would think about that room in front of me, what I feel about it, how exquisite of an experience that is. I'd be fascinated by the color. Maybe stand up, dance, hum, roll around (since the walls and floor are the same color... that'd be fun), scream? laugh. Then after some time, maybe I'd start thinking about life and the future and start getting scared and wanting to go out lol
How long do you take to make an important decision? And do you change your mind once you've made it?
Hahahahaha long. I can ruminate a lot. And at such moments, I don't think I can trust myself much, but it's hard to let other people decide too. I want to choose an option that will be best for everyone but many times I don't know which one that is and that is sooo exhausting. I don't want to regret anything, and make bad choices. I change my mind if a better option shows up, and sometimes I give up for something else.
How long do you take to process your emotions?
I don't know...? I don't think I process much of my emotions, I tend to go with them and the figuring out happens too unconsciously for me to tell
How important are emotions in your life?
They are very important, a way for us to feel connected and express ourselves. I'm quite sensitive and treat others kindly and try for each situation to end well and happily
Do you ever catch yourself agreeing with others just to appease them and keep the conversation going? How often? Why?
Yes T_T very often I answer others in an affirmative manner when it doesn't coincide with what I think inside. I generally don't lie or conceal my opinions though, I am evasive and can get silent when my opinion contradicts the general opinion, but if asked, I'm sincere and explain my point of view the best I can. If they aren't convinced, it's okay, but I'm not changing what I think unless I'm convinced otherwise. But I do tend to use accomodating expressions
Do you break rules often? Do you think authority should be challenged, or that they know better? If you do break rules, why?
I'm not much of a rule breaker... I've been more of a nice kid since young, I didn't cause much trouble for my parents, teachers, and adult figures. But I'm also not a stickler for convention, I like questioning things and I keep an open mind. I don't respect rules I believe to make absolutely no sense. And if I break them, I don't feel bad at all if I'm sure on what I'm doing. I believe authority should be challenged, we need to do so or else we become oblivious and can be taken advantage of, I don't think authority knows better.
I'll be considering ENFJ now
