What is this annoying girl's type?

[proteanmix]

Why is it as soon as I saw this title I knew people where going to type this girl as ExFJ?

Frankly sounds ENFP to me.

 

[Xander]

Matches a younger INFP I know. Well matches him every time he's upset or life isn't cheering him up sufficiently. Somehow that becomes my problem

 

[Amargith]

I'd say immature EXFX based on this info. Need more info.

 

[Litvyak]

Yup, immature ENFP.

 

[Charmed Justice]

ENF

 

[proteanmix]

BTW, what makes her unhealthy or immature?

She could've been me at 16. Or maybe older.

 

[Litvyak]

Immature = young, and not yet comfortable with her feelings and interests, doesn't realize her full potential. At least in my dictionary.

 

[proteanmix]

Immature = young, and not yet comfortable with her feelings and interests, doesn't realize her full potential. At least in my dictionary.

That can be said of an older person. Most people don't realize their potential until they're on their death bed, if they should be so lucky.

verbVerbadjblah, I think you listed some annoying traits of a person and expected people to pull together a type based on it. I pulled ENFP out of my ass, I have no clue what type she is.

Off to a meeting! I'll come back and describe the annoying things people did and ask for them to be typed!

 

[Oaky]

Immature = young, and not yet comfortable with her feelings and interests, doesn't realize her full potential. At least in my dictionary.

I disagree

 

[Asterion]

Yup, ENFP. What kind of J would be quick to change their mind so often?

 

[Charmed Justice]

I disagree

Same.
You're not mature until you're dead, and then it's too late anyway. No one is "mature", and we're all "more mature" in different areas of our lives at different times.

 

[Litvyak]

That can be said of an older person. Most people don't realize their potential until they're on their death bed, if they should be so lucky.

Young AND things I've mentioned, like being incomfortable with her feelings etc.
If she's old and still behaves like that, I call her stupid.

I disagree

Feel free to disagree. Emboldening and reflecting on two words of a sentence doesn't seem very useful, however. Same for quasi-philosophical ruminations on a seemingly unimportant definition.

 

[Oaky]

^ the 'and' indicates that you add to what I disagree with already.

 

[Litvyak]

It seemed that you disagree with "immature = young" and not with "immature = young, and not yet comfortable with her feelings and interests blahblahblah". It just isn't the same thing.

Whatever. One disagreement a day keeps the doctors away, I say.

 

[BlahBlahNounBlah]

In case this helps, she's a university grad in her mid twenties.

 

[BlahBlahNounBlah]

And most of her childhood friends have trust funds, but her parents ran into some economic trouble, so this isn't a possibility for her. She often talks about how unfair it is that her friends have a, b, c, d. She blames her parents for this.

 

[BlahBlahNounBlah]

Matches a younger INFP I know. Well matches him every time he's upset or life isn't cheering him up sufficiently. Somehow that becomes my problem

This was my second guess.

 

[prplchknz]

Same.
You're not mature until you're dead, and then it's too late anyway. No one is "mature", and we're all "more mature" in different areas of our lives at different times.

wow just wow.

 

[SillySapienne]

And most of her childhood friends have trust funds, but her parents ran into some economic trouble, so this isn't a possibility for her. She often talks about how unfair it is that her friends have a, b, c, d. She blames her parents for this.

So do mine.

And I ain't got shit.

What a whiny, entitled, self-absorbed, petty yuck-face.

I, quite unfortunately, know people like this.

Embittered passive-aggressive phonies who are obsessed with themselves.

I can guarantee you she is not an FP.

 

[Amargith]

Fwiw, I consider 'immature' emotionally immature in this context. Not judging on that as we all have that path to walk and we all still have immature parts, and thank god for that as it reminds is to not take everything so seriously. Those parts just have their downsides on occasion as well.