If I actually get to that point from the high tolerance I've built up.. you will be in pain.
Whether it's because I break something physically or start sarcastically stabbing you emotionally with all the weaknesses and personal fears of yours that I've picked up on but not mentioned out of courtesy.. really depends on the situation.
And most likely either way I'll be staring you down the whole time. And I will feel absolutely no remorse because at that point, you WILL have deserved it and I won't hold back.
The second time the target of my fiery wrath ran away and yelled "She went crazy!"
Major upsets, however, tend to result in implosion followed by barely controlled, moderately focused explosion at the one who's wronged me. Perhaps it's learned, but I tend to numb myself by default when the transgression occurs, take a day to figure out why the hell I'm so pissed off, and then shove a stick up their ass the next day.
In the last month I can say that I lost my temper really bad in public at least 7 times on complete strangers.
Oh goodness! How could I forget the vigor of my youth (so long ago... 5, 6 years, is it?*)?! Yes, I punched a hole in my sister's wall, kicked a hole in her door, and cracked my mom's shin bone (not intentionally...
I haven't lost my self-control since I was ten. It bothers me. I would like to know how I react if I lose it, but of course I can't make myself lose it, and I'm not sure that I dared if I could. Its like, I have no evidence that I would be dangerous or anything, but it doesn't feel good not knowing...
The second last time I lost it was when I was 8 or something. My brother had left scissors on the floor and we ran around the house and I ended up having the scissors in my foot. I mostly yelled some ugly stuff. Then the last time was when we were fighting outside (i was sick of fighting all the time with him, but he somehow enjoyed it) and I broke his self-confidence by laughing at him while he was trying to keep me down. Im not sure if he ever recovered emotionally. He was devastated by it.
So, now I'm quite a lot older and I don't really know what I might do if I ever lose my sence of right and wrong. I mean, it was really a big surprise for the ten-year-old-me to break someone with a laugh, and I have never done anything like that again, but it makes me think that I could possibly hurt someone really bad if I don't keep myself in check.
Experiences?
I don't know if this is normal for an ENFP at all, but I have a matchstick temper. I start extremely quickly but I die down really quickly. It can happen anywhere, and be instigated by anyone. I will be fine and all of a sudden I seriously, just can't control myself anylonger.
..... Luckily for me this never lasts more than 15 minutes.
What happens when NF explodes?
Glitter and confetti! Rainbows! It will rain puppies! We're pinatas full of happy good feelings!
i don't recall ever blowing up
and considering what i have been through and am going through......
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i know that my eq is high, but still
and i really don't get angry or take anything personally
Sounds very similar to my INFJ brother as well. He can keep calm all the time. I can't recall anytime that he really exploded.
I guess the auxiliary Fe helps INFJ have high EQ.
As an ENFP, I've barely blown up either. My anger comes very slowly. I can pretty much control it unless somebody is persistent poking or nudging it.
I guess the auxiliary Fe helps INFJ have high EQ.
In my experience INFJ are as vulnerable as any other of us human beings to losing temper.