In school, I have noticed some common trends..
SPs find and make friends with others who are of the same interests. Those who have fallen for sports make friends with other jocks, those who are artistic make friends with others who make artwork, the stoners make friends with the stoners, etc etc. It's almost as if there are no values in their relationships. Or I don't see them as values. They hang around other people who
do the same things that they do.
SJs are structured. SJs hang out with other SJs. They make a specific group of friends and once that barrier is formed, few get in or out. It's all about popularity in a sense. They don't really get it when someone doesn't fit in.
NTs are very exclusive, from my experiences. They tend to hide their intellect for other NTs who are of the same level. One of my close friends is an INTP, and even though I'm one of his best friends, he'd rather hang out with other NTs than with a close friend. I guess it has something to do with the level of intellect they all share.
I'm not trying to make it seem like NFs are the best, all I'm doing it pointing out a few general annoyances I have found in other temperaments from school-related experiences.
As for a person like me, I'm kind of in the middle, or not even in on any of this. I don't really belong anywhere, and prefer not to limit myself to a specific group of friends, or even limit myself. I have a diverse range of friends.
Furthermore..
The whole NT-criticizing-everything-that-isn't-logical thing, it really drives me nuts.
As mentioned before, SJs and popularity status ticks me off. And how they don't understand it many other ways.
I guess I won't give SPs such a hard time, because I've always gotten along well with them on the social level. Naturally all over the place, crazy, unmotivated, rejection of rules, etc etc.
But where my true friends come..is in the NF temperament. I've always found solace in every NF one way or another. One of my best friends is an INFJ and happens to be the only one I know, and even though we come from two completely different worlds, we get eachother on a personal level.
I think that kind of sums up NF friendship. You can come from completely different worlds and do completely different things, but something about having the same values on a conceptual level really makes for an understanding, personal, and true bond that is hard to be shattered.
I love you guys.