EAharrell
New member
- Joined
- Aug 25, 2018
- Messages
- 3
- MBTI Type
- ENFP
- Enneagram
- 9
- Instinctual Variant
- sx
I am really interested in how family enneagrams affect each other, for example, I think that having a 3w2 mom and a 1w9 dad was influential in me becoming a 9w8. So, I am wondering how other families are structured and how you think that this influenced you becoming your type.
My Family is:
Mom: 3w2
Dad: 1w9
Sister (eldest): 5w4
Brother (middle): 8w7
Me (youngest): 9w8
My older brother was a big strain on my parents and was particularly at odds with my dad. This took a lot of their attention and energy which I think may have been part of me being a 9, I always kind of felt like I had to make sure the conflict ended but also just wanted to be far away form it. I particularly notice my 9 trait of stubbornness when asked to do something when my mom pushes me to be productive and efficient and I really hate that.
How is your family set up and how do you think that influenced you?
My Family is:
Mom: 3w2
Dad: 1w9
Sister (eldest): 5w4
Brother (middle): 8w7
Me (youngest): 9w8
My older brother was a big strain on my parents and was particularly at odds with my dad. This took a lot of their attention and energy which I think may have been part of me being a 9, I always kind of felt like I had to make sure the conflict ended but also just wanted to be far away form it. I particularly notice my 9 trait of stubbornness when asked to do something when my mom pushes me to be productive and efficient and I really hate that.
How is your family set up and how do you think that influenced you?
