yeah. that's true, about short-term satisfaction. like the entire day where i thought i was an INFJ
i think though, that if we pull back and ask, so what if we and/or they have their type wrong?, it's not really that big of a deal. even those of us who have gotten quite familiar with MBTI have occasional oh-shit moments where we realize we've had something off. not that i'm advocating ignorance. just that my day as an INFJ didn't have many significant negative impacts, really, besides feeling dumb later. i just was trying to use a hammer on a screw, so to speak. it wasn't working, and i figured that out soon enough.
it would be fascinating to meet in person with someone of your type who is very, very different than you.
has anyone had this experience?