Avocado
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- Joined
- Jun 28, 2013
- Messages
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- MBTI Type
- ENFP
- Enneagram
- 7w6
- Instinctual Variant
- sp/so
whenever someone asks me how they look my first thought is usually: "why are you asking me? I like you already I don't care how you look" then I have to think about people they're gonna interact with but my default isn't how are other people besides me gonna perceive you looking like that rather I like you if you make friends i don't know if i want to share, so maybe i should lie like if you look good say you don't in hopes you'll look bad if you change or if you look bad tell you look good. not you personally just in general. i resist the urge to do that, most of the time.
I have an urge to mess with people's heads, too, but I moderate that with compassion (usually). I have bad selective hearing and people are angry at me all the time becuase they think I'm ignoring them.