[ENTJ] The Softer Side of ENTJs

[tinker683]

I've been attracted to the VERY few ENTJ women I've met in my life but they've wanted nothing to do with me. C'est la vie.

The mature ones are awesome, good leaders and they have an attitude about business and work that I can get behind really easily.

 

[phoenix13]

They're enthusiastic, animated, and I LOVE debating with them. LOVE IT!!! I find them very easy to understand as well... they tend to make sense. Lastly, they're the most open minded people out there in that they'll listen to any argument once before judging.

EDIT: To address the thread title, I find them very affectionate and even vulnerable in intimate relationships. Basically, if you're in their inner circle, you'll be well loved and taken care of.

 

[DiscoBiscuit]

What you see of (and in) the ENTJ all depends on how close you are to them.

The view my opponents get of me is DRASTICALLY different from the view my closest friends and relatives get of me.

With the one closest to me, I'm a big teddy bear.

 

[INTPness]

They are dynamic. Someone I want on my team. And very capable of making me laugh.

If you take a well-rounded xNTP and a well-rounded xNTJ and put them together - and if those two individuals can check their egos at the door, put their differences aside, effectively interact with each other, get along with each other for the long-haul (and not just merely tolerate each other), the things they could accomplish are almost limitless.

 

[Rainne]

i think the best way to appeal to an entj's softer side is to show you're not a complete dumbass

 

[figsfiggyfigs]

i think the best way to appeal to an entj's softer side is to show you're not a complete dumbass

ROFL!!! THIS. can't be any less true.

 

[figsfiggyfigs]

What you see of (and in) the ENTJ all depends on how close you are to them.

The view my opponents get of me is DRASTICALLY different from the view my closest friends and relatives get of me.

With the one closest to me, I'm a big teddy bear.

.... that smilie makes me wary.... LOL



But I completely agree. we are total softies.

 

[ThatGirl]

ThatGirl's campaign to become a mod continues apace, I see.

We should edit the title and op to "The Mod Side of ENTJs."

 

[_dp]

I'm told that an ENFJ male often appears ENTJ-ish but with a softer side here and there ;D
I think I can appear ENTJish at times, especially when we're doing like a group assignment and people rely on me to delegate work/tell them what to do/hold the group together etc.

I find using Te is relatively fun

 

[JustHer]

Oh.

Who let you out of the graveyard?

 

[ThatGirl]

Oh.

Who let you out of the graveyard?

What does this have to do with my thread?

If you want to troll, you can see me in my blog.

 

[Ezra]

I melt around those I love. A select few (normally one at a time) welcome to experience my world of softness. But in public, they're more like a sidekick to me who I don't really care for (funnily enough, if I'm with someone I don't love, I'll often see them more as a prize). It's just a public image.

 

[teslashock]

The one ENTJ I know is very very loyal and dependable with those that he truly cares about and holds in high esteem.

Also, he generally gives good, practical advice (though some times a bit crass) when it comes to complicated emotional issues.

 

[Aleksei]

We are not all business and what not....

Say something decent and positive about an ENTJ you have known.

My ENTJ friend once handed me $500 so I could stay at a motel for a week when I got evicted. He's also great to hang out with and has an awesome sense of humor.

 

[MoneyTick]

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

And over ...

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Were still all about business

 

[MoneyTick]

I like him already!

Business-trio right here!

Now lets go run the world

 

[Little_Sticks]

Genuinely enigmatic and charismatic. Secretly genuinely care about where the world is headed and want to help guide it to a more meaningful state and are very open-minded where their philosophies don't conflict with another. They can sacrifice themselves to their work in order to do what they think is best, but most people don't see or understand this. Paradoxically, their biggest enemies can sometimes be their treasured friends - they love those that can challenge them. Underneath the cold unrelenting masks used to protect them from the stupid they see in the world are passionate kind people that cherish those who can understand them and help bring about a more fulfilling human world.