justwannabeMe
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- May 1, 2013
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- MBTI Type
- iNfj
- Enneagram
- 9w8
- Instinctual Variant
- sx/sp
They don't all do it, but it seems that most do. INTJ's and ... staring. I've also read its commonly found in the sp/sx stacking, too.
So, for amusement's sake, I'm calling out to all of you who have a memory of an INTJ staring at you.
Did you like it? Or not so much?
I know other people stare, too, but lets face it -- its totally an INTJ thing. No?
As for me, I pretty much love it. There is this one person who does it a lot recently; details shall be withheld. I'm perfectly happily married, and he knows my spouse and kids, but I think through conversations I have with him I have sparked his interest and I catch him jumping and turning after --staring--. Its nice that someone is curious enough about you to bother staring. I highly doubt he would ever be so low as to entertain much in the way of thoughts of infedelity, its seems to be curiousity or interest of some nature. He also does the ~ pretend not to listen or notice or ... whatnot thing. He is likely a 5, too, I'd guess. It's funny. There have been 3 times he has done it, just been staring like a serial killer lost in thought, eyes intensely fixated. I wouldn't dare get so lost in staring at a person, I just glance. just glllllance! I doubt he would break eye contact at all - except that its weird. because I'm married. duh.
There was another INTJ who did it SO MUCH. I mean standing 2 feet from you - just staringgggg. I was a teenager, and in love with him, and insecure... so... that was too much for me. ... yeah. too much.
My INTJ girlfriend doesn't really stare. so... I dunno.
Thoughts on the topic? Please share. Theres no real objective here ... its just a subject that tickles me. makes me chuckle. Also - do tell if YOU are an INTJ and you know you have a staring problem! hah! Whats going on inside of you. What could be so interesting that you want to stare?
So, for amusement's sake, I'm calling out to all of you who have a memory of an INTJ staring at you.
Did you like it? Or not so much?
I know other people stare, too, but lets face it -- its totally an INTJ thing. No?
As for me, I pretty much love it. There is this one person who does it a lot recently; details shall be withheld. I'm perfectly happily married, and he knows my spouse and kids, but I think through conversations I have with him I have sparked his interest and I catch him jumping and turning after --staring--. Its nice that someone is curious enough about you to bother staring. I highly doubt he would ever be so low as to entertain much in the way of thoughts of infedelity, its seems to be curiousity or interest of some nature. He also does the ~ pretend not to listen or notice or ... whatnot thing. He is likely a 5, too, I'd guess. It's funny. There have been 3 times he has done it, just been staring like a serial killer lost in thought, eyes intensely fixated. I wouldn't dare get so lost in staring at a person, I just glance. just glllllance! I doubt he would break eye contact at all - except that its weird. because I'm married. duh.
There was another INTJ who did it SO MUCH. I mean standing 2 feet from you - just staringgggg. I was a teenager, and in love with him, and insecure... so... that was too much for me. ... yeah. too much.
My INTJ girlfriend doesn't really stare. so... I dunno.
Thoughts on the topic? Please share. Theres no real objective here ... its just a subject that tickles me. makes me chuckle. Also - do tell if YOU are an INTJ and you know you have a staring problem! hah! Whats going on inside of you. What could be so interesting that you want to stare?