Mole
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Simone Weil (pronounced Vey) was a French mystic who was the first woman to graduate from the Sorbonne and who wrote the Constitution of France only to have it rejected by Charles de Gaulle as too mystical.
Simone sacrificed herself for others all her life, Simone devoted herself to the love of others, but neglected to love herself. Simone was indeed a very lovable person, but she never realised that she, herself, was such a lovable person.
And I wonder how much we are like Simone. Are we failing to realise what a lovable person we are? I think the answer is yes, for the secret hidden in narcissism is self hatred. Of course narcissism looks like self love, but this is a naive mistake, and narcissism is self hatred.
But we live in a society that runs on narcissism. We are constantly encouraged to buy because, "we deserve it". We wage continual war abroad and continual narcissism at home. And like Simone Weil we don't realise how lovable we are.
Simone sacrificed herself for others all her life, Simone devoted herself to the love of others, but neglected to love herself. Simone was indeed a very lovable person, but she never realised that she, herself, was such a lovable person.
And I wonder how much we are like Simone. Are we failing to realise what a lovable person we are? I think the answer is yes, for the secret hidden in narcissism is self hatred. Of course narcissism looks like self love, but this is a naive mistake, and narcissism is self hatred.
But we live in a society that runs on narcissism. We are constantly encouraged to buy because, "we deserve it". We wage continual war abroad and continual narcissism at home. And like Simone Weil we don't realise how lovable we are.