Julius_Van_Der_Beak
Fallen
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- Jul 24, 2008
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- MBTI Type
- EVIL
- Enneagram
- 5w6
- Instinctual Variant
- sp/so
So, how does one get rid of ego like that? I imagine learning to live with others better plays a role.Here are some examples of emotions with and without ego:
Grief:
w/o ego My cat died and I miss him terribly. I feel exhausted all the time and realize there is no way to bring him back, so I am stuck with this feeling of loss, which over time will go further to the background, and perhaps can be eased by helping another cat, but for now, I need to schedule fewer work hours and allow myself to cry.
w/ego I am overwhelmed with sadness over a loss, and I will never love again. I am feeling more pain than can be imagined or that anyone has felt. I will never be happy again. (this is a kind of inverted narcissism)
I agree with this.If you let go of ego, of creating a sense of grandiosity in response to any emotion, but observe it for its cause-and-effect, the internal physiology that creates it, if you fully understand it, then you can apply reason in the same way as a physical illness. The reality is that over-reactions or misplaced reactions often have a source in an earlier stimuli that we didn't process, and so keep re-living it. If you understand your own self deeply enough, then emotional and physical responses to environmental stimuli are the same. It it only when they are made aggrandized by ego that they defy reason. I do not think that either gender has the monopoly on reason, but the culture creates a sense that men are more objective, but their irrationality is disguised behind a mask of the appearance of reason to hide emotional and ego motivations. They are covert with vulnerability while the culture for women has the ability to create a false front of being sweet, vulnerable, and cooperative, sometimes falsely emotional, when that can also hide ego motivations and strategies.
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