Type would probably say that certain types are less patient with certain things. Like my INTJ wife would be extremely impatient with anyone not doing things "the right way", which is her way. I'm generally impatient when things aren't working and/or are in my way.
Type wouldn’t say. People would say of type! lol.. But seriously. I agree with ‘certain things’ as opposed to people. But I think your INTJ wife is a poor example since people are not things. You were a better example. If your wife is extremely impatient with anyone not doing things her right way, does that say more of type or of her emotional maturity regarding others? Can you not imagine an INTJ who is patient with people, even with those who don’t comprehend them or their instructions? People would think that INTJ atypical or another type. That individual is just mature and well balanced functionally as a person.
Back to ‘certain things’ cuz I think that's on the right track. If that same INTJ is trying to solve a problem but can’t figure out how to do it then they may lose patience with the problem (or at their Te for failing). The relation is to particular stressors within our environments or toward ourselves for failing within our environments. You said it. When it gets
in your way.
But if we're talking patience regarding peepoles*, then that same INTJ may one day become stressed enough they won’t be able to tolerate them at that given time. Stress goes, back to equanimity.
*...
Probably both. Ps more than Js,
*BUZZZ*
If you’re gonna play that game, then you have to play by the rules. IPs and EJs would be less patient because they’re ruled by Judging functions and IJs and EPs more patient because they’re ruled by Perceiving functions.
But I don’t see it that way, really. The impatience for all of them would stem from whatever is not nourishing their Dominant function. An ENTP isn’t able to generate ideas as usual, or they’re not up to par, they (their Ti) may become impatient with themselves
(and take it out on you thru Fe…*). An ISFP can’t get people to relate to each other peacefully so they (their Se) become impatient with the lack of progess being made and leave. etc
*jk…
Is more than Es, Fs MAYBE more than T, and no difference between N and S.
*ZZZ*
But eh I could be wrong, I'm guestimating.
