LightSun
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- Aug 9, 2009
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- #9
"Path: What is our path in your life? What philosophy serves as your moral compass?"
"A philosophy which I've as choice took as my life journey is and has its roots in: Jesus teaching peace, Buddhism, as well the cognitive theory in a psychology orientation, these are primary; but it happens incorporating insight I've gained from a number of different fields. I am fully aware our personal philosophies can change as we gain new insights that leads us to ever greater and greater understanding. We grow in depth and breadth with our understanding of self, others and the world we live in. Each ladder of awareness is a progression to clearer understanding and newly discovered personal wisdom.
On our spiritual path in life we must endeavor to take High Road in difficulties. Above all do not give in to base emotions if being triggered and react in a lesser way by expending negative energy. You are reacting and not making a conscious and mindfull choice in how you handle the trigger. We are reacting against ghosts from the past that this moment has triggered which hamper our personal growth upon the path of self-actualization.
What is worse is to repay a negative with another negative on your own part. If there is a negative emotion look within, reflect and act with reason and Agape compassion.
A PATH / A KEY / A WAY is to follow the golden rule by:
Precepts to remember: Do not think negative thoughts, but deal with the situation rationally.
Do not speak with negative energy. It is a reflection of you and not the other.
Do not act negatively, but react realistically with the proper restraint even if negative energy is directed at you.
Now we influence each other with positive or negative energy. So the natural tendency is to repay negative energy with more negative energy. This feels very good and we feel self- righteous about it. After all the other is in the wrong and not us. In our mind the other is doing blind, evil, immoral, wrong words or actions. But the key is that it is irrelevant to one's path. The key is that being negative in even the slightest is a true reflection of self and not the other. The other's path is their destiny.
We must remain mindful and hold ourselves to a higher standard. We need to remind ourselves that the lesser road most traveled by other people is one where one does not learn from the lessons of life Our choice to take the High Road and not give in to base emotions yields growth. This can only occur when we examine our triggers. Triggers are unhealed psychic wounds. It is in this area that defense mechanisms exhibit themselves to protect our self from disturbing emotions.
Chances are we have been conditioned to act in an irrational and ineffective way. If there is a negative emotion look within, reflect and act with reason and Agape compassion. It is these disturbing triggers that are the catalysts for new growth in emotional, psychological and spiritual maturity. These are things to keep in mind when triggers occur. if you react taking the lesser road invariably the message and lesson is lost but it will undoubtedly reappear until you learn the lesson you need to learn about yourself.
A. What is in us waiting to come to the surface in a testing moment.
B. The trigger is a reflection of our own unfinished childhood issues and emotions.
C. If we do not act with restraint and reason we are reacting in a lesser manner. We aren't taking the harder less traveled high road to emotional and spiritual growth. It is with the gift of insight and mindful reflection that we can safely get through this rough spot of our triggered consciousness. This moment in space and time was brought together for you to learn this valuable lesson of self, in order to grow and actualize. Do not throw this precious moment away by reacting with your baser instincts. Reach, grow, become. Reach for this inner learning. Grow with this wisdom through insight and personal reflection and become what you were meant to be.
This individual remains true to 'walking their talk' and remain true to a path of spiritual healing and growth. The alternative of taking the lesser road and giving in to our emotions, we then act without reason. We yield our conscious control to the underlying subconscious areas of our own unresolved conflict and unfinished business. He who is wise knows that a negative trigger is a reflection of the individual. Those who are unwise react blindly lashing out against the world and their fellow human beings. These people have a blind spot and not understanding are only adding to the confusion of the world.
Doesn't it say that change has to come from within and to look in the mirror before we find fault with others or life circumstances. If after thorough reflection one comes to the conclusion that an action on our part is needed to right a wrong, we then act but with reason. Moreover in taking the lesser more traveled path we do not learn valuable lessons about ourselves, others and reality. Rather we are doomed to continue being triggered and acting out in an ineffective manner. The lesser road leads to stagnation and lack of both growth and character."
'Search for Yourself, be Yourself'
"Do not allow others to make your path for you. It is your road and yours alone. Others may walk it with you, but no one can walk it for you. Accept yourself and your actions. Own your thoughts. Speak up when wrong, and apologize. Know your path at all times. To do this you must know yourself inside and out, accept your gifts as well as your shortcomings, and grow each day with honesty, integrity, compassion, faith, and brotherhood." Terri Jean
"A philosophy which I've as choice took as my life journey is and has its roots in: Jesus teaching peace, Buddhism, as well the cognitive theory in a psychology orientation, these are primary; but it happens incorporating insight I've gained from a number of different fields. I am fully aware our personal philosophies can change as we gain new insights that leads us to ever greater and greater understanding. We grow in depth and breadth with our understanding of self, others and the world we live in. Each ladder of awareness is a progression to clearer understanding and newly discovered personal wisdom.
On our spiritual path in life we must endeavor to take High Road in difficulties. Above all do not give in to base emotions if being triggered and react in a lesser way by expending negative energy. You are reacting and not making a conscious and mindfull choice in how you handle the trigger. We are reacting against ghosts from the past that this moment has triggered which hamper our personal growth upon the path of self-actualization.
What is worse is to repay a negative with another negative on your own part. If there is a negative emotion look within, reflect and act with reason and Agape compassion.
A PATH / A KEY / A WAY is to follow the golden rule by:
Precepts to remember: Do not think negative thoughts, but deal with the situation rationally.
Do not speak with negative energy. It is a reflection of you and not the other.
Do not act negatively, but react realistically with the proper restraint even if negative energy is directed at you.
Now we influence each other with positive or negative energy. So the natural tendency is to repay negative energy with more negative energy. This feels very good and we feel self- righteous about it. After all the other is in the wrong and not us. In our mind the other is doing blind, evil, immoral, wrong words or actions. But the key is that it is irrelevant to one's path. The key is that being negative in even the slightest is a true reflection of self and not the other. The other's path is their destiny.
We must remain mindful and hold ourselves to a higher standard. We need to remind ourselves that the lesser road most traveled by other people is one where one does not learn from the lessons of life Our choice to take the High Road and not give in to base emotions yields growth. This can only occur when we examine our triggers. Triggers are unhealed psychic wounds. It is in this area that defense mechanisms exhibit themselves to protect our self from disturbing emotions.
Chances are we have been conditioned to act in an irrational and ineffective way. If there is a negative emotion look within, reflect and act with reason and Agape compassion. It is these disturbing triggers that are the catalysts for new growth in emotional, psychological and spiritual maturity. These are things to keep in mind when triggers occur. if you react taking the lesser road invariably the message and lesson is lost but it will undoubtedly reappear until you learn the lesson you need to learn about yourself.
A. What is in us waiting to come to the surface in a testing moment.
B. The trigger is a reflection of our own unfinished childhood issues and emotions.
C. If we do not act with restraint and reason we are reacting in a lesser manner. We aren't taking the harder less traveled high road to emotional and spiritual growth. It is with the gift of insight and mindful reflection that we can safely get through this rough spot of our triggered consciousness. This moment in space and time was brought together for you to learn this valuable lesson of self, in order to grow and actualize. Do not throw this precious moment away by reacting with your baser instincts. Reach, grow, become. Reach for this inner learning. Grow with this wisdom through insight and personal reflection and become what you were meant to be.
This individual remains true to 'walking their talk' and remain true to a path of spiritual healing and growth. The alternative of taking the lesser road and giving in to our emotions, we then act without reason. We yield our conscious control to the underlying subconscious areas of our own unresolved conflict and unfinished business. He who is wise knows that a negative trigger is a reflection of the individual. Those who are unwise react blindly lashing out against the world and their fellow human beings. These people have a blind spot and not understanding are only adding to the confusion of the world.
Doesn't it say that change has to come from within and to look in the mirror before we find fault with others or life circumstances. If after thorough reflection one comes to the conclusion that an action on our part is needed to right a wrong, we then act but with reason. Moreover in taking the lesser more traveled path we do not learn valuable lessons about ourselves, others and reality. Rather we are doomed to continue being triggered and acting out in an ineffective manner. The lesser road leads to stagnation and lack of both growth and character."
'Search for Yourself, be Yourself'
"Do not allow others to make your path for you. It is your road and yours alone. Others may walk it with you, but no one can walk it for you. Accept yourself and your actions. Own your thoughts. Speak up when wrong, and apologize. Know your path at all times. To do this you must know yourself inside and out, accept your gifts as well as your shortcomings, and grow each day with honesty, integrity, compassion, faith, and brotherhood." Terri Jean