[NT] NTs in your 20s/early 30s where does one find you other than in grad school?

[UniqueMixture]

Tick tock

 

[Pseudo]

I've decided my soulmate - i.e. person who could potentially put up with me for more than 3 months - is an NT.

Of course. we're oblivious. The real question is could you deal with us?

 

[EffEmDoubleyou]

I've decided my soulmate - i.e. person who could potentially put up with me for more than 3 months - is an NT.

The thing with dating an NT - especially an INT - is that you have to learn how they express their love. They might hate saying "I love you" every day because they hate being phony and prefer to say that when they're raptured, but they might also bake you cookies all the time.

 

[highlander]

Seriously, like where the hell are you all?*

*when you're not climbing the ivory tower.

Married with small children

 

[CzeCze]

Married with small children

Twenties or early thirties? Married or in relationships.

We're all hiding.

Damn, you guys are all just smashing her dreams!! Have you no heart?? Oh wait, this is NT Rationale, nevermind

I'm still suprised no one has commented on:

I've decided my soulmate - i.e. person who could potentially put up with me for more than 3 months - is an NT.

While were on the topic, where do psychologists and psychiatrists hang out? I wouldn't mind dating one. Would make my life cheaper.

Ummm, girl, maybe you should seek out a stable available boy of any type for dating and just pop in a Showtime drama if you want you know...drama. 'Cause that what it sounds like you're hunting down!

 

[rav3n]

Damn, you guys are all just smashing her dreams!! Have you no heart?? Oh wait, this is NT Rationale, nevermind

We have hearts. They pump blood through our arterial networks. What has heart functionality got to do with her dreams?

 

[WALMART]

We have hearts. They pump blood through our arterial networks. What has heart functionality got to do with her dreams?

I'd presume without her heart, dreams would not exist.

 

[Rasofy]

I'm still suprised no one has commented on:

We're that good, and we know it!

To answer the OP; dunno, I don't go out much. I recommend dating websites - that's how I met my ex-gf, who was also an INTP.

I'll give you the finest idea you'll ever read: start playing an MMORPG like WoW or Ragnarok, and get your character to the max level. The ratio of male NTs playing those games is HUGE, and you'll be getting marriage proposals from them every day if you stand out somehow.

They may be a bit too nerd though.

 

[Usehername]

Your local coffee shop near a grad school.

So you guys never leave campus then?

Seriously, though, we're not all near campus. Some of us make sure to choose a coffee shop a mile away from campus to avoid the undergrads.

 

[rav3n]

I'd presume without her heart, dreams would not exist.

[MENTION=1009]CzeCze[/MENTION] knows me well enough that she would have been aware of my facetiousness.

 

[Thessaly]

We're that good, and we know it!

To answer the OP; dunno, I don't go out much. I recommend dating websites - that's how I met my ex-gf, who was also an INTP.

I'll give you the finest idea you'll ever read: start playing an MMORPG like WoW or Ragnarok, and get your character to the max level. The ratio of male NTs playing those games is HUGE, and if you'll be getting marriage proposals from them every day if you stand out somehow.

They may be a bit too nerd though.

Sounds like a solid plan. Unfortunately I have next to no time to develop said talents.

 

[Thessaly]

The thing with dating an NT - especially an INT - is that you have to learn how they express their love. They might hate saying "I love you" every day because they hate being phony and prefer to say that when they're raptured, but they might also bake you cookies all the time.

I know this. I've dated a few NTs and I think you're all fantastic for the most part and the feeling is quite mutual. NTs effing love my questionable sense of humor and sexual deviance.

 

[CzeCze]

We have hearts. They pump blood through our arterial networks. What has heart functionality got to do with her dreams?

I'd presume without her heart, dreams would not exist.

CzeCze knows me well enough that she would have been aware of my facetiousness.

Yeah, I knew the NT answers I quoted before all tongue-in-cheek. But, I like your answer too, Jon.

I'll give you the finest idea you'll ever read: start playing an MMORPG like WoW or Ragnarok, and get your character to the max level. The ratio of male NTs playing those games is HUGE, and you'll be getting marriage proposals from them every day if you stand out somehow.

Yeah, maybe 5 online marriages and all the free virtual loot she could sell on ebay will make up for her lack of an actual diamond ring.

 

[WALMART]

[MENTION=1009]CzeCze[/MENTION] knows me well enough that she would have been aware of my facetiousness.

Ah, I didn't mean anything by it, I was helping propagate the literality of the NT.

 

[EffEmDoubleyou]

I would just like to point out that there are INTJs who hate MMORPGs, and pretty much aren't gamers at all.

 

[TheStarchDefenders]

Ah, I didn't mean anything by it, I was helping propagate the literality of the NT.

lololol MUST BE XPLAINEEEEED. I really <3 NTs.

 

[EcK]

We're that good, and we know it!

To answer the OP; dunno, I don't go out much. I recommend dating websites - that's how I met my ex-gf, who was also an INTP.

I'll give you the finest idea you'll ever read: start playing an MMORPG like WoW or Ragnarok, and get your character to the max level. The ratio of male NTs playing those games is HUGE, and you'll be getting marriage proposals from them every day if you stand out somehow.

They may be a bit too nerd though.

YeaH I call them aborted NTs

 

[Thessaly]

So back to stalking...erm finding NTs. Where art thou? For reals everyone. Not for play play. I would like to be lain by a robot.

 

[EcK]

So back to stalking...erm finding NTs. Where art thou? For reals everyone. Not for play play. I would like to be lain by a robot.

robot basically means serf/worker/slave worker depending on how you look at its origin. So yeah. Id suggest the plantations 3 centuries ago ? Racist .

 

[Thessaly]

robot basically means serf/worker/slave worker depending on how you look at its origin. So yeah. Id suggest the plantations 3 centuries ago ? Racist .

Wouldn't this be a case of reverse discrimination?