Alright, Alright, Alright Dahlila... quit twisting my arm... If you wanna try something new.. You can go ahead and start pursuing me.
Who better to start with than an ENFJ right?
hmmmm
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Alright, Alright, Alright Dahlila... quit twisting my arm... If you wanna try something new.. You can go ahead and start pursuing me.
Who better to start with than an ENFJ right?
hmmmm
HaHaaaaaa
INFP + ENFJ = well....ya know
Okay..... you can start now.
I think she's saying she digs antisocial nerds...
Nah, even they have chasing instincts ime. You first have to whack em over the head a few times though, like get them pissy. Once they come after you coz you pushed their buttons and got them ranting on their pet peeves, you get giggly and girly. Watch them go confused. Switch back to pissing them off. Push repeat. Before you know it, you've got the antisocial nerd chasing you and actually enjoying it
It just takes them a while to catch on to the rules of the game
Lol I have a thing for introverted guys who are socially awkward and nerdy.
Lol I have a thing for introverted guys who are socially awkward and nerdy. I can't help it!! When I think of E-men, I think of trouble makers who pick up anything. I'm going to hear it now, huh? I would love to be proved wrong here. Seriously!
Lol I have a thing for introverted guys who are socially awkward and nerdy. I can't help it!!
Lol I have a thing for introverted guys who are socially awkward and nerdy. I can't help it!! When I think of E-men, I think of trouble makers who pick up anything. I'm going to hear it now, huh? I would love to be proved wrong here. Seriously!
Whoa whoa whoa whoa….. wait a minute…. I don’t know what kind of e-men you know, but speaking for myself and the ENFJs that I know, we are the pickiest bastards around… (Definitely too picky in most cases) Even the slightest little action or comment can turn us off. We will definitely start a conversation with anyone, but further than that we are extremely picky.
i.e. – I met a girl the other day at my college, and we instantly clicked. We talked for about an hour and everything was fine until she made the statement that she didn’t like animals. As soon as she said that, it was like the “click†switch was turned off and immediately I was uninterested. I tried to force myself to look past that small comment, but I just couldn’t. So even though we connected in most areas it still didn’t matter. If I don't connect with someone on a deeper level then it just isn't gonna happen. Maybe when I was younger I could look past the deeper connection thing, but now that i'm older, a deeper connection is actually the thing that I crave most. With ENFJs there is a definite difference between being outgoing and simply just picking anybody up. Just because we are outgoing and can talk to anyone doesn’t mean that we want to.
I think what you’re referring to are the younger e-men who don’t fully know who they are yet. They are the ones that will pick up anything. But the older more mature ENFJ man that knows exactly who he is would never do this.
I have an Ex who is an ENFJ and is a complete doormat for anyone who comes his way, no real standards to be seen. Is that a younger ENFJ problem?