Scott N Denver
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So once again I had some thoughts on my mind, and once again they relate to SO's and/or children. [For those who are keeping track, yes this has been on my mind a lot lately].
So I am curious fellow NFP's, where did you meet your SO? Also, for those of you who have children, did you always know that you wanted to, or knew once you met your SO, or knew once it happened, or something else? Expressed differently, when did you know that you wanted to have children?
Potentially-boring stuff about me, read at risk of your own boredom:
And since I like to answer questions myself that I ask of others, I don't have an SO nor do I have any children. Fwiw, growing up I always thought I "wouldn't be in the world" by the time I was 30 either cuz a) I would have fought in and died in some war [I did grow up wanting to be an Army Ranger and then SF/green beret, such stereotypical INFP callings right? ] or b) I would have "left the world" to go live in some buddhist monastery in Asia somewhere. One of the biggest lessons of my life ~10 years ago was that I don't actually need to do that. But I still dream sometimes! :rolli:
So I am curious fellow NFP's, where did you meet your SO? Also, for those of you who have children, did you always know that you wanted to, or knew once you met your SO, or knew once it happened, or something else? Expressed differently, when did you know that you wanted to have children?
Potentially-boring stuff about me, read at risk of your own boredom:
And since I like to answer questions myself that I ask of others, I don't have an SO nor do I have any children. Fwiw, growing up I always thought I "wouldn't be in the world" by the time I was 30 either cuz a) I would have fought in and died in some war [I did grow up wanting to be an Army Ranger and then SF/green beret, such stereotypical INFP callings right? ] or b) I would have "left the world" to go live in some buddhist monastery in Asia somewhere. One of the biggest lessons of my life ~10 years ago was that I don't actually need to do that. But I still dream sometimes! :rolli: