runvardh
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- Joined
- Jun 23, 2007
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- MBTI Type
- INFP
- Enneagram
- 6w7
- Instinctual Variant
- sx/so
I know my INTJ can be very dismissive with most people. He falls prey to the emotional overload though with the few close friends he has. Like when I'm very very sick, he frequently worries A LOT, and tries to contain it, but the worry winds up eating at him if I remain sick for a long time. He becomes very depressed and unresponsive, and has to take more and more time alone. The upset drains him badly. This absolutely does NOT happen with him when he's around just Whomever Off The Street. It seems to be unfortunately counterproductive to forming a lasting, deep attachment. It frustrates him.
Perhaps it has to do with the Fe/Fi inferior function when it comes to INTPs and ENTJs; it sneaks in the back door and hits them hard that way.