Yaru
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- Nov 10, 2014
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- MBTI Type
- INFP
- Enneagram
- 4w5
She filled out a questionnaire she found on PerC. But didn't feel like subscribing to any of the typology forums. I'd like to have your opinion as well.
I attached some of her Art works and notebook pages in case they could be of any help.
Thank you so much for your help and patience, she'll appreciate it a lot.
(I was afraid she would come up with extremely long responses, but it isn't as bad. She did good
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Despite what she said, the first time I met her she seemed to be an INTJ to me. She was pretty much perfect and super smart, and kind of cold actually. Just after a while I found out that she is literally a gummy bear.
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1. Is there anything that may affect the way you answer the questions? For example, a stressful time, mental illness, medications, special life circumstances? Other useful information includes sex, age, and current state of mind.
2. Study these two images here and here. Which one do you prefer and why? How would you describe it?
3. Please describe yourself as a person if you were to introduce yourself to someone else like in a cover letter. What kind of person are you and why?
4. What kind of person would you LIKE to be? Why? What kind of person would you NOT want to be? Why?
5. Do you think there are any differences to how you described yourself and how people actually perceive you? How do you think others would describe you? If there are any discrepancies between these two that are you are aware of; do you know why exactly that is?
6. What in life do you find to be of importance? Why? If you are unsure you can always take the Value Testand post the results here. Do note that it helps if you narrow it down to 20 or ideally 10 values as suggested at stage 2.
7. How do you react to new situations in your life? Can you describe an event in your life where you were in an unknown situation? How did you deal with it?
8. Please describe yourself when you are in a stressful situation. How do you act and why? Real life experiences are welcome.
9. Please describe yourself when you are in an enjoyable situation. How do you act and why? Real life experiences are welcome.
10. Describe your relationship to socialization. How do you perceive one-on-one interaction? How do you perceive group interaction?
11. Describe your relationship to society. What are the elements of it you hold important or unimportant (e.g. social norms, values, customs, traditions)? How do you see people as a whole?
12. Describe your relationship to authority. How do you perceive authority? What does it mean to you, and how do you deal with it?
13. Describe your relationship to order and chaos. What do order and chaos mean to you? How do they manifest in your daily life?
14. What is it that you fear in life? Why? How does this fear manifest to you both in how you think and how you act?
15. What is it that you desire in life? What do you strive to achieve? Why? Where do you think these drives and desires stem from or are inspired by?
16. a) What activities energize you most? b) What activities drain you most? Why?
17. Why do you want to know your type? What type do you think you are? Why this/these type(s)? Is there a type that appeals to you, to your self-perception, that you would like to be? Why? If you know your enneagram, please post this here. If you have done any online function tests such as the Keys2Cognition, it helps if you post these results here as well.
18. Finally, is there something else you find to be of importance you want to add about yourself you think might be of relevance when helping to type you?
I attached some of her Art works and notebook pages in case they could be of any help.
Thank you so much for your help and patience, she'll appreciate it a lot.
(I was afraid she would come up with extremely long responses, but it isn't as bad. She did good
Despite what she said, the first time I met her she seemed to be an INTJ to me. She was pretty much perfect and super smart, and kind of cold actually. Just after a while I found out that she is literally a gummy bear.
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1. Is there anything that may affect the way you answer the questions? For example, a stressful time, mental illness, medications, special life circumstances? Other useful information includes sex, age, and current state of mind.
The only thing that may affect the way I answer these questions is the way I've been trying to be as honest as possible with myself, to the point of not recognizing anymore if this is the way I am or the way I'm most comfortable being... just like an excuse I'm trying to change myself in order to be as true as possible, and sometimes it's like I'm on the ship with Captain Jack, swinging from side to side, trying to pull it upside down, to reach another dimension.
Also, lack of sleep. I'll probably be a bit incoherent by the end of the questionnaire.
Girl, 21 y.o., confused and resolute?
Also, lack of sleep. I'll probably be a bit incoherent by the end of the questionnaire.
Girl, 21 y.o., confused and resolute?
2. Study these two images here and here. Which one do you prefer and why? How would you describe it?
I prefer the second, because I can picture myself at a table just writing in my journal and minding my business when the place isn't too crowded. I'd love the sea too, but after a while I would be at a loss on what to do and I'd probably feel small and disoriented.
3. Please describe yourself as a person if you were to introduce yourself to someone else like in a cover letter. What kind of person are you and why?
I'm someone who wants to be seen as creature before than a woman. I'm generous, I constantly think of other people though I'm always by myself. I want to help others smile. I'm shy and sometimes I need space. I bond tightly with few people and I hope to keep them by my side for all my life.
4. What kind of person would you LIKE to be? Why? What kind of person would you NOT want to be? Why?
I'd LIKE TO BE more benevolent to myself. I'd like to have the courage to stand up for myself, to get angry at people and shout when I feel disrespected. I would like to put my feeling above others' and not feel guilty, to say what's on my mind without panicking and being afraid to hurt myself and other people. I would like to be confident and stand by my beliefs without always second guessing my thoughts. I'd like to be someone people can rely on.
I WOULDN'T WANT TO BE arrogant, vulgar and lazy. I don't want to be close minded or an hypocrite.
I WOULDN'T WANT TO BE arrogant, vulgar and lazy. I don't want to be close minded or an hypocrite.
5. Do you think there are any differences to how you described yourself and how people actually perceive you? How do you think others would describe you? If there are any discrepancies between these two that are you are aware of; do you know why exactly that is?
Sometimes people see me as a cute little thing, and that's probably because through my years I unconsciously learnt that cute petite girls pass off as pretty and pleasant. I just wanted everyone to have a good opinion of me, and now people get the wrong one because I'm too insecure.
But then there are some close friends who know me well, and they see in me all I've ever wanted to be, even when I can't.
But then there are some close friends who know me well, and they see in me all I've ever wanted to be, even when I can't.
6. What in life do you find to be of importance? Why? If you are unsure you can always take the Value Testand post the results here. Do note that it helps if you narrow it down to 20 or ideally 10 values as suggested at stage 2.
Benevolence
Respect
Confidence
Consistency
Motivation
Mercy
Sensibility
Warmth
Privacy
Respect
Confidence
Consistency
Motivation
Mercy
Sensibility
Warmth
Privacy
7. How do you react to new situations in your life? Can you describe an event in your life where you were in an unknown situation? How did you deal with it?
I try to adapt myself as quickly as possible, though I look for familiar patterns. When I started university and moved to another city I was able to stay academically efficient, but everything mining my privacy and my old life style would secretly piss me off. I like new situations if they cover a short period of time...
8. Please describe yourself when you are in a stressful situation. How do you act and why? Real life experiences are welcome.
Before graduating from high school, teachers expected me to get the highest score in my class. I was flattered, but I'm not the kind of smart society goes for, and preparing was harsh, and it had physical effects too. I never want to disappoint people and that's the main source of all my stress. I think I'm never good enough.
9. Please describe yourself when you are in an enjoyable situation. How do you act and why? Real life experiences are welcome.
When I chat with very close friends I like to joke around and be a little mischievous. I can even act quite silly if I feel comfortable. I get quite bouncy and probably look like a happy dog.
10. Describe your relationship to socialization. How do you perceive one-on-one interaction? How do you perceive group interaction?
I'm mostly fine with one-on-one interaction and I have no problem opening up about personal life experiences, but I become very shy and feel awkward when confronted with a group of people. I want to be invisible and yet I get disappointed when the people in the group ignore me. I speak only if needed because I feel stupid and naive.
11. Describe your relationship to society. What are the elements of it you hold important or unimportant (e.g. social norms, values, customs, traditions)? How do you see people as a whole?
I value customs and traditions very much as long as they don't blind people. I see people as corrupted by stereotypes and close minded.
12. Describe your relationship to authority. How do you perceive authority? What does it mean to you, and how do you deal with it?
I perceive authority as something that must not be disrespected, or even questioned, in some instances.
13. Describe your relationship to order and chaos. What do order and chaos mean to you? How do they manifest in your daily life?
I'm a fan of order and I expect it in every part of my life. I like everything to be in its place and every event to be planned and well thought. Chaos equals confusion and I always need a clear vision, even if I appreciate the sense of impartiality and nature that I link to chaos.
14. What is it that you fear in life? Why? How does this fear manifest to you both in how you think and how you act?
I fear... making a bad impression on people and regretting saying/doing things.
I always try to reduce my ego when in company and be and sweet as possible, so that they will think good of me and never get angry. I try to be humble. I subconsciously try to look vulnerable so people won't attack me. I don't do things if not desperate, in hope to prevent remorse.
I always try to reduce my ego when in company and be and sweet as possible, so that they will think good of me and never get angry. I try to be humble. I subconsciously try to look vulnerable so people won't attack me. I don't do things if not desperate, in hope to prevent remorse.
15. What is it that you desire in life? What do you strive to achieve? Why? Where do you think these drives and desires stem from or are inspired by?
I desire privacy and admiration. A job where I'm always in a warm personal space, doing something that reaches people artistically and emotionally. I strive to make people realize through my art and words that they're perfect as they are, that every piece of their puzzle fits perfectly, because I spent my life thinking I was an abomination.
16. a) What activities energize you most? b) What activities drain you most? Why?
a) Watching tv series, listening to music that inspires me to be myself no matter how I come off to people, drawing handsome characters, reading motivational words.
b) Anything social, really.
b) Anything social, really.
17. Why do you want to know your type? What type do you think you are? Why this/these type(s)? Is there a type that appeals to you, to your self-perception, that you would like to be? Why? If you know your enneagram, please post this here. If you have done any online function tests such as the Keys2Cognition, it helps if you post these results here as well.
From Keys2Cognition
extraverted Sensing (Se) ************* (13.9)
unused
introverted Sensing (Si) *************************************** (39.2)
excellent use
extraverted Intuiting (Ne) *********************************** (35.3)
good use
introverted Intuiting (Ni) ************************************* (37.3)
excellent use
extraverted Thinking (Te) *********************** (23.3)
limited use
introverted Thinking (Ti) ********************** (22)
limited use
extraverted Feeling (Fe) ************************ (24.2)
average use
introverted Feeling (Fi) ********************************************* (45.2)
excellent use
It says I'm INFP, but many times before I got INFJ as a result... I think they both suit me... or they would, if I was a brighter person. I wish I'd edge on T, because I want to respect myself first and have a clear vision of what right or wrong when I have to fight.
extraverted Sensing (Se) ************* (13.9)
unused
introverted Sensing (Si) *************************************** (39.2)
excellent use
extraverted Intuiting (Ne) *********************************** (35.3)
good use
introverted Intuiting (Ni) ************************************* (37.3)
excellent use
extraverted Thinking (Te) *********************** (23.3)
limited use
introverted Thinking (Ti) ********************** (22)
limited use
extraverted Feeling (Fe) ************************ (24.2)
average use
introverted Feeling (Fi) ********************************************* (45.2)
excellent use
It says I'm INFP, but many times before I got INFJ as a result... I think they both suit me... or they would, if I was a brighter person. I wish I'd edge on T, because I want to respect myself first and have a clear vision of what right or wrong when I have to fight.
18. Finally, is there something else you find to be of importance you want to add about yourself you think might be of relevance when helping to type you?
Uhm... not really. Just... because of a few new events in my life followed by a few issues with a friend or two, I became even more malleable, I lost that tiny bit of confidence I had left. I gave up on so many things. I believe my personality wasn't really the same a few years ago. I feel deformed.