Rachelinpa
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- ENFP
it seems to be my only complaint about our relationship (well ok, not the ONLY one...). we are both so flexible and laidback that we never get any decisions made. he would rather me make the decision and i would rather him make the decision. it's not really that big of a deal, except that we starve on occasion because we can never decide on a place to eat.
is it really a sacrifice for my istp to make these (little) decisions in our relationship? or, is he just trying to be nice and making sure i get what i want? he dated an esfj right before me, so i'm thinking he may have been used to her calling the shots. maybe he liked it that way though...
is it really a sacrifice for my istp to make these (little) decisions in our relationship? or, is he just trying to be nice and making sure i get what i want? he dated an esfj right before me, so i'm thinking he may have been used to her calling the shots. maybe he liked it that way though...