Interviews by ENFP

[ENFPMale]

Hello everyone! In this interview, I got a chance to interview Elias about what it's like to be an INTJ Ni-Te BP/C(S) FF Social Type 1. During this interview, we discussed his NT blast and described how abusive that masculine Ni is compared to feminine Ni. Elias discussed how he feels like feminine Ni with masculine Se seems to be a better combo than masculine Ni with feminine Se. Me and Elias went on a huge rabbit hole comparing both our double masculine sleep animals and the differences and how the NF sleep is particularly difficult because you can't quite put into words what that reoccurring negative emotion that is giving you problems. We also talked about the different external image projected to the tribe as a result of your consume animal. Elias discussed how green lantern is his source of his NF sleep last mantra which is "No Fear" as the fear of uncertainty is what holds back IxxJs. We also talked about his social type 1 in great detail and how Dave said he is a friendly social type 1. Finally, we discussed Elias' sexual modalities where smell brings back nostalgia and his visual is not as strong as those who are FMs. Watch this interview here:

 

[ENFPMale]

Hello everyone! In this interview, I got a chance to talk to Michael about what it's like to be an ESFJ jumper Fe-Ne PC/B(S) FF Social Type 4. We started talking about his double activated NF consume and Michael shared how sensitive he is as he is picking up everyone's emotion all the time. He later also shared that when he uses his double feminine SF blast to nudge the tribe to behave nicer, the then becomes the target afterwards. Michael also shared his double masculine NT consume and how aggressive he is at gathering information that will help solve a problem he is working on. He said he prefers to use tech than ask for help for self-preservation purposes as he doesn't want to bother the tribe. He discussed how asking for help or directions is something he avoids. Michael then discussed his ST sleep and how competence is important to him and how personal work is to him. We then discussed his sexual modalities briefly and his visual appears to be stronger than his tester. Finally, we discussed his social type 4 and the friends coin is what makes him stay at his current job for so long because he has a good team with good vibes and that's what's stopping him from moving on to potentially find another job. Watch this interview here:

 

[ENFPMale]

Hello everyone! In this interview, I got a chance to talk to Toni about what it's like to be an ESFP Se-Fi CP/B(S) FF Social Type 1. The first thing we discussed is her SF consume and Toni talked about how important image is to her, especially as a social type 1. She does use her SF consume to become a third party to herself and journal her experiences to get to her double masculine NF sleep last. She then talked about her double feminine ST play and she said as a social type 1, she can't help but feel competitive with other people because she's seeing the spectrum of competence all the time and she even feels insecure at times because she knows she is not the best based on the spectrum of competence she's observed. Toni can also use NT blast as she discussed the biggest difference between blast last and sleep last ESFPs and how she actually relates more to the jumper ESFPs because she's double activated Te. Toni then talked about her double masculine NF sleep patterns and the negative possibility she sees in the future as well as her reoccurring emotional pattern of swinging between feeling the best and feeling not good enough. She narrowed down that vulnerability is what she needs to work on as a social type 1 so that she has no weakness as she's already showed her cards and no one can use that against her in the future. The final part of the discussion is discussing our differences as a social type 1 versus a social type 2 and Toni admiring social type 2s being the purest form of double deciding and not caring about image as much which is good as it allows the social 2s to get through that point of awkwardness when you're starting a new project or venture without the fear of looking bad. Watch this interview here:

 

[ENFPMale]

Hello everyone! In this interview, I got a chance to talk to Johnson about what it's like to be an INTJ Ni-Te BS/P(C) MF Social Type 2. The first obvious thing about Johnson is he is a pure-blood INTJ with his specific stack. Even in the old obsolete Myers Briggs system, he was an INTJ because his animal stack literally activates like the original 16 personality type. Johnson talked about his double feminine double activated NT blast and he said because it's so feminine, he doesn't argue with people and gives the advice but doesn't expect people to absorb it. He then talked about his NF sleep and he likes to use the NF blast of ESTPs like the Rock and Alex Hormozi as his own. We then discussed his ST play and he said he likes to do it in small windows like 1-2 hours at work just to collaborate with his employees to solve some tribe chaos problem. For his MM SF consume last, Johnson said he had a massive tidal wave a few years ago that involved a break up with an ex-girlfriend that caused him to take his SF seriously. He said since then, he started styling his hair, get a tattoo, get earrings, and working out to the point where he now has visible abs. He said that consuming new information for self is still extremely difficult and he relies on play to get new information. Watch this interview here:

 

[ENFPMale]

Hello everyone! In this special in-person interview in Florianopolis, Brazil, I got a chance to talk to Diego about what it's like to be a jumper ESTJ Te-Ne PC/S(B) MF Social Type 4. We started our discussion talking about his double feminine NT play and Diego said he had trouble seeing it at first because it was so feminine. He actually thought before he got officially typed that he had NT sleep because he can see the NT but he didn't know he had it in a play position. He then discussed his double activated NF consume which makes Diego look very INFP-like and also his obsession with consume makes him multi-task multiple consume at one time from watching YouTube, playing Pokemon Go, and listening to music at the same time. Diego then shared his double masculine SF sleep and talked about not sharing his feelings until he gets absolutely pushed to the point where he has no other choice but to talk to the other person. Because he's still a decider, he will never blow up on someone with the MM SF sleep and will still use his FF NT play to discuss his feelings to the tribe. This is especially bad because he's ST blast last and speaking up when he's feeling resentful is very difficult for him as an ExxJ. He said people have borrowed from him either money or things and never returned them making him feel resentful. He said it's ultimately his fault for not setting boundaries. Watch this interview here:

 

[ENFPMale]

Hello everyone! In this interview, I got a chance to talk to Christopher about what it's like to be an INTJ Ni-Te BS/P(C) FF and social type is still being reviewed by Dave as he got typed three years ago. Christopher first shared his NT blast and it's very concise because of having sleep saviour. Christopher then discussed his MM NF sleep and how he knows how he feels, knows his vibe, but can't concretely put it into words. He then shared his ST play and said he doesn't have long conversations with people but prefer to just vibe and joke around then going back to work shortly after. Next, with his SF consume last, Christopher discussed wanting to change his clothes more often to update the SF and not be the stereotypical INTJ that doesn't update their wardrobe. One of the most interesting thing about Christopher besides looking like Christian Bale (who is an INTJ) is that he really avoids people and friendship is something he strongly doesn't care about. Christopher thinks he's a social type 1; though, he hasn't ruled out social type 3 as well. He also looks at other top performers and always strives to be the best and take on the characteristics of those who are the best in their field. Watch this interview here:

 

[Haight]

Interesting stuff. Thank you for sharing.

Of course, I don't understand half of it. However, the other half is certainly worth the effort.

 

[ENFPMale]

Hello everyone! In this interview, I got a chance to talk to Faith about what it's like to be an ESTP Se-Ti CP/B(S) MM Social Type 1. We first talked about his ST consume and how all he does is consume stuff all day in regards to bodybuilding. He also talked about his abusive double activated double masculine SF play and how he's usually the loudest guy in the room. He also said the louder he gets, it means he's getting more insecure. Laith also talked about his NF blast and he does believe in the NF to an extent but some NF can be cringe but he doesn't rule out anything NF entirely. We then discussed his double feminine NT sleep last and I asked him what his reoccurring pattern about him that is true. He said it's that he eats too late at night, gets horrible sleep, can't wake up the next day and is late for everything and has to play catchup including having his last meal too late causing him to get bad sleep again and rinse and repeat. Laith also talked about not having any friends as a social type 1 but he said he does want real friends but has trouble keeping them as he cuts people out for the smallest thing that happens between him and others. Watch this interview here:

 

[ENFPMale]

Hello everyone! In this interview, I got a chance to talk to Ben about what it's like to be an ENTP jumper Ne-Fe PB/C(S) FF Social Type 4. During our discussion, Ben shared that he's pretty quiet as a PB person because he's scanning his surrounding first. Once people get to know him, he does become a super extroverted PB individual who loves to egg people on. Ben also travels a lot and part of that is just living his life as tomorrow is not promised. Ben shared his ST sleep processing of his wife's passing and he's trying to frame the situation to be positive despite the horrible tragedy. We also discussed competence equals safety with ST sleep and him using his masculine Ti to process things internally. Watch this interview here:

 

[ENFPMale]

Hello everyone! In this interview, I got a chance to talk to Jon who has his own YouTube channel called JustCallMeJon and focuses on what INTJs are going through. During our interview, Jon shared his life growing up and talked about nature vs nurture. He also discussed how he got into personality type and his opinion of other personality typing systems like Objective Personality, Personality Hacker, 16personalities, etc. He also briefly discussed his collaboration with other personality YouTubers like Lijo and Joyce. Jon then went into a deep explanation his Ni+Fi personal code that he adheres to at the second half of our interview. We did a collaboration for this interview and he also interviewed me in his channel. Watch this interview here:

 

[ENFPMale]

Hello everyone! In this interview, I got a chance to talk to Nathalia about what it's like to be an ESFP Se-Fi CP/B(S) MF Social Type 4. During our discussion, Nathalia shared her MM SF consume and how aggressive she is with eating food. She said saving money is not an issue for her as she hates organizing her finances and rather just not spend money so she doesn't have to worry about it. She also talked about her double activated play and being saviour friends and how being info-dominant makes her be more serious but she can still do the playful thing depending on who she is hanging out with. Nathalia said she can NT blast the problem is that it's double feminine and sometimes forgets the content of her lessons. Nathalia also discussed her NF sleep problems and she said doing a leap of faith is the scariest for her and freaks out her Fi but she has learned to do so more as she got older. Nathalia also discussed having a lot of decider problems because she is sleep last and a social type 4; although, she is able to solve them since ultimately, she is still a double decider. Watch this interview here:

 

[ENFPMale]

Hello everyone! In this interview, I got a chance to talk to Kennedy about what it's like to be an ENFP Ne-Fi CP/B(S) FF Social Type 4. The biggest thing you'll notice during this interview is me and Kennedy won't stop CHANNEL CHANGING topics. We do eventually loop back as we both have blast activated and get to a point but the abuse of side tangents is inside. We also had an insanely info-dom conversation with non-stop citing of different sources. Also, we couldn't stop talking about observer things like talking about lead NF vegans vs lead ST vegans and different diets. Kennedy does share her issues with being SF sleep last with physical sleep and the actual SF. She also shares her struggles with being flex last and how it hinders her ability for self-expression. Watch this interview here:

 

[ENFPMale]

Hello everyone! In this interview, I got a chance to talk to Jess about what it's like to be an ISTJ Si-Fi SB/C(P) FF Social Type 4. The first thing we covered is her SF sleep first and Jess said her mental health and physical sleep routine is very good. Her problem is her eating healthy because she has double masculine NF consume and she swings between over-controlling herself and eating health because of being lead sleep then her double masculine consume kicking in and she goes out of control eating everything she wants. She said exercise is a big issue for her because she's a social type 4 and lacks the drive to get herself moving. Processing her emotions is also something she does automatically by default. We then discussed her double feminine ST blast and she said she doesn't really tell people what to do but she said she has a tendency to ruin conversations because she'll narrow down the point so quickly instead of engaging in the back and forth play. Jess then discussed her double masculine NF consume and being info-dominant and she has a tendency to cite her sources during interactions; however, she will forget the exact wording or names because of her feminine sensory so she often times has to use her masculine Ne to try and link that reference to something that she does remember. Jess then discussed being NT play last and the contradiction happening to her is she likes people, wants to engage with people but the play last is stopping her unless the person is someone within her family or friends she already know. She does enjoy the NT figuring things out with the tribe aspect of things and wishes she can do more NT play with the tribe. She also said that as a social type 4, the lack of drive is very apparent and the best jobs she's had is ones with people she can interact with. Watch this interview here:

 

[ENFPMale]

Hello everyone! In this follow-up interview, I got a chance to talk to Josh about what it's like to be an INTJ jumper Ni-Fi SB/P(C) MM Social Type 1. The first thing we discussed is his journey working on his SF consume last and Josh has been working on his SF a lot getting a new hairstyle, and working out to get fit. He's also been doing more research as well since he is a social type 1 that has his own band and is using whatever advantage he can get to beat his competition. He also discussed being friends last and his friends is essentially his bandmates and if they weren't in the same band together, he thinks they probably wouldn't be friends anymore. Josh also discussed being saviour generalist and how it feels easier than specializing; although, he has specialization third so he can still use it, especially when making music. We also discussed his need for words of affirmation and also the need for negative reinforcement to fuel the fire for him to be better. Josh also talked about jealously and how as a social type 1, he gets jealous easily and he can feel his throat and chest burning everytime that feeling of jealously takes over his body. Watch this video here:

 

[ENFPMale]

Hello everyone! In this video, I explain how the sexual modalities work for those new to the Objective Personality system. This video has been requested by several individuals so here it is now. In this video, I cover the four different types of sexual modalities. Then, I explain the difference between each cognitive function's masculine and feminine polarities. Watch this video here:

 

[ENFPMale]

Hello everyone! In this interview, I got a chance to talk to Sabine about what it's like to be an ESFP jumper Se-Te PC/S(B) FF Social Type 1. We started the interview discussing her being double feminine ST play and for the most part, Sabine's feminine Se is what's most obvious as she always forgets the details she's gathered. Ironically though, even if she forgot what she gathered, she still filters it through her double masculine NF sleep which became the focal point of our interview. Sabine is very protective of her inner vibe and will her control her outside surroundings, especially people, to ensure that her ideal inner vibe is met at all times. Sabine also uses her MM NF sleep to future project a lot and it seems with her masculine Ni, she perceives the future as a threat so she's very protective of what will influence the future. Sabine is also a social type 1 and her ego seems to be the focal point of this specific social type as she has a tendency to take things personally and is very competitive. We also discussed her NT blast last which she mainly uses at work. Sabine said it's easier to tap into her blast last after she's done some sleep processing so going for walks around the block to clear her mind allows her to NT blast better afterwards. Her ultimate social type 1 goal is to go back to Rwanda and be a part of the nation becoming stronger and better. Watch this interview here:

 

[ENFPMale]

Hello everyone! In this interview, I got a chance to talk to Uriel about what it's like to be an INTP Ti-Ne CP/S(B) FF Social Type 1. During this interview, Uriel shared his inner thoughts as a social type 1 regarding friendships and relationships. When Uriel moved from Spain to Germany, he said he didn't care about losing any of his old friendships. He actually didn't think it was weird at all until someone asked him if he still has friends in Spain and when he said no, the person gave him a weird look. He then proceeded to send a mass text to all his former friends saying something like they're not friends anymore as he doesn't do well in long-distance friendships and don't take it personally. Ironically, this had the opposite effect as he is now still friends with some of those people from his home country. Basically, as he sent those text and some of those former friends responded back, his Fe kicked in and realized he cared about some of those individuals more than he thought he did. And so he learned that building bonds with others is important to him and he has kept a handful of people as his real friends. We also discussed his NF play, ST sleep, SF blast, being a generalist saviour, and taking the time to gather the tribe's perspective as an IxxP type. Watch this interview here:

 

[Saturnal Snowqueen]

@ENFPMale how do I get interviewed by ya? I've seen your stuff awhile and now I've finally been shaved-FF Fe/Si BS/C(P), so it might be fun to give a shot

 

[ENFPMale]

@ENFPMale how do I get interviewed by ya? I've seen your stuff awhile and now I've finally been shaved-FF Fe/Si BS/C(P), so it might be fun to give a shot

Send me an email at personalitytrainerteam @ gmail .com to schedule our interview!

 

[ENFPMale]

Hello everyone! In this follow-up interview, I got a chance to talk to Ashli about what it's like to be an ENFP jumper Ne-Te PC/B(S) FM Social Type 2. During this interview, we focused on her social type, being a #2 as she discussed her entrepreneurial aspirations and how she runs her fashion styling business, which is mixed with Christian philosophy. She talks about juggling multiple responsibilities such as also managing the household finances, homeschooling kids, and applying for a job that would allow her to pursue her true Fi passion which is singing and leading Christian-related lessons. We also discussed what it's like to have double masculine NT play and NF consume as her two saviours which doesn't touch her Si and as a result, she was more carefree and confident when she was younger but as she got older and realized the importance of ST, that's what life became a bit more challenging. She also discussed her ISTP husband with double activated SF play and a social type 4 and his challenges having low drive and his feminine Ni. She also discussed how she loves his masculine Ti even if it can be cold at times. We also discuss our SF sleep last insecurities where mine is my SF styling while Ashli is with emotional processing. Watch this video here: