Mind Maverick
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This AM just for the sake of experimenting I tested again on 16Personalities, but this time I tried really hard not to have any neutrals in there, even if the questions were flawed or made no sense, etc. INFP.
The questions on there were intensely restrictive, limiting.
"Winning a debate matters less to you than making sure no one gets upset."
First of all, "winning a debate" tends to entail some degree of pride, strife, and contention. I prefer calm, rational, logical discussion-style "debate" in which the goal isn't to win, but to think--and I call this cognitively exploring with someone as a duo or a team. I also don't want people to get upset in the process, and it's no longer enjoyable for me if they do. Fighting isn't my idea of fun.
Furthermore, often times peoples' logical conclusions are just over-glorified opinions: if it was really possible to come to the knowledge of truth (objective truth) through rational thinking, wouldn't everyone applying logic and seeking objectivity arrive at the same conclusion? Why would there even be any debate? Why am I going to assert myself at the expense of a person's feelings when I know that things are subjective? Why would I tear down a friendship over subjective logic? Especially when I actually do care if I hurt someone, offend someone, cause damage to a relationship. I'll "make a stand" when it's something I know is true or right, but it's not an enjoyable process to me.
I put true. Of course, this shifted me towards the F spectrum. Wait. Wasn't this just a logical answer?
Another question I had a problem with:
"You consider yourself more practical than creative."
Actually, I consider myself to be a logical creative, and practicality a part of logic. Placing it on opposite ends of a spectrum implies that creativity is impractical, or practicality is not creative, doesn't it? How can I answer this when creativity can be so practical, and practicality can be so creative, and I love both so much? Even for, "working smarter, not harder" this entails creativity and practicality. Stick this question in front of a team of Engineers and Industrial Designers...I wonder how many neutral answers there will be.
Just sharing something that offers a new perspective.
The questions on there were intensely restrictive, limiting.
"Winning a debate matters less to you than making sure no one gets upset."
First of all, "winning a debate" tends to entail some degree of pride, strife, and contention. I prefer calm, rational, logical discussion-style "debate" in which the goal isn't to win, but to think--and I call this cognitively exploring with someone as a duo or a team. I also don't want people to get upset in the process, and it's no longer enjoyable for me if they do. Fighting isn't my idea of fun.
Furthermore, often times peoples' logical conclusions are just over-glorified opinions: if it was really possible to come to the knowledge of truth (objective truth) through rational thinking, wouldn't everyone applying logic and seeking objectivity arrive at the same conclusion? Why would there even be any debate? Why am I going to assert myself at the expense of a person's feelings when I know that things are subjective? Why would I tear down a friendship over subjective logic? Especially when I actually do care if I hurt someone, offend someone, cause damage to a relationship. I'll "make a stand" when it's something I know is true or right, but it's not an enjoyable process to me.
I put true. Of course, this shifted me towards the F spectrum. Wait. Wasn't this just a logical answer?
Another question I had a problem with:
"You consider yourself more practical than creative."
Actually, I consider myself to be a logical creative, and practicality a part of logic. Placing it on opposite ends of a spectrum implies that creativity is impractical, or practicality is not creative, doesn't it? How can I answer this when creativity can be so practical, and practicality can be so creative, and I love both so much? Even for, "working smarter, not harder" this entails creativity and practicality. Stick this question in front of a team of Engineers and Industrial Designers...I wonder how many neutral answers there will be.
Just sharing something that offers a new perspective.