If You Have To Ask

[kendoiwan]

It's not spontaneous if you have to ask for it. I understand that people can't read minds. But in this particular instance: if I have to tell you what I want, which is for you to want me without me having to say something, I can't have what I want. I'm at a loss, and I'm frustrated...

 

[Nicola]

If it is causing you such pain, do you think it maybe helpful to verbalize Kendoiwan? Is it because we fear rejection that we keep quiet? And who ends up suffering the most? Just a thought....