I think anything spontaneous and out of the ordinary can be thrilling for Se-users. It would be a mistake to understimate how happy this makes us. If you're an ENTP, you may have a tendency to over-think this. No need. It doesn't need to be complex. All you have to do is deviate from the plans you made, or throw something random in there if there were no plans at all. To drive the point home, for an especially Se-starved ISxP, I think something as simple as going to the grocery store randomly when you're at home watching TV could be exciting
To be a little more involved then a grocery store trip... some other ideas are:
- Going out to eat randomly. Try parking near a street with a lot of restaurants and strolling around to pick one out.
- If you're going on a road trip, reasearch a few fun places to stop at on the way and surprise her
- Take a random art class with her. Those painting classes that are BYOB are becoming popular in Houston.. I'm sure there in a lot of other cities too. Or just google art classes in the area. I'm taking a pottery class now that's a lot of fun
- Nothing beats a day trip to somewhere fun.
- ... except weekend trips. Or week trips.
- Just get active with her. Volleyball, biking, whatever. (If she's the active type)
But really... like I said... ANYTHING out of the ordinary or spontaneous will do pretty much.