Evastover
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- Joined
- Jan 2, 2015
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- MBTI Type
- INFP
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- Instinctual Variant
- sp/sx
I am sad for the following reasons:
1. My friend has recently introduced me to her boyfriend. What she said was basically along the lines of "Boyfriend, meet my friend the Socially Awkward Loser" ._. At the end of it, she was trying to get me to go away by saying "don't you have someone to stalk?" and "go watch My Little Pony".
2. The main love interest of my life who I can't be with for a couple of reasons (Grumpycat, I may go into more detail about him later) has recently gone on the down-swing. I have noticed our friendship has an natural ebb and flow, which is normal but still. I feel like I awkwardly brought up gender societal expectations in regards to sex and relationships and off-put him somehow... I wasn't bringing it up in regards to anything, but just as a conversational topic. And I wasn't there to say goodnight when he did which shouldn't bother me but it does. He talks to me every day, and we always wish each other good night... I guess I'm just a sucker for routine.
3. I am lonely and have been extremely lonely for the past couple of days. I've been trying to distract myself with music, playing guitar or piano, reading, writing, coursework, working on my speeches, etc, but nothing is working and I don't know what to do ._. I've cried quite a few times in the past couple of days (INFP probs, man) and I'm beginning to think maybe I'm PMS'ing?
4. My family, whom I still live with, has been very stressed the past couple of days. My mother in particular has been very angry and easily agitated. This means I cannot go to my family for socialization and I don't really, ah... go out and see people for socialization.
These are my main reasons for having the saddie-sads, I think. I don't like to have the saddie-sads because I realize I am off-putting to others when I am in a sad mood, but I don't know what to do! It is a frustrating situation for me. It looks like I am overthinking everything, but this is everything I thought of after I started feeling sad because I realized my sadness must have some sort of reason and I needed to find the reason(s) so I could fix it. However, I don't know how to fix it ._.
I feel very awkward and lonely right now. Halp ;-;
1. My friend has recently introduced me to her boyfriend. What she said was basically along the lines of "Boyfriend, meet my friend the Socially Awkward Loser" ._. At the end of it, she was trying to get me to go away by saying "don't you have someone to stalk?" and "go watch My Little Pony".
2. The main love interest of my life who I can't be with for a couple of reasons (Grumpycat, I may go into more detail about him later) has recently gone on the down-swing. I have noticed our friendship has an natural ebb and flow, which is normal but still. I feel like I awkwardly brought up gender societal expectations in regards to sex and relationships and off-put him somehow... I wasn't bringing it up in regards to anything, but just as a conversational topic. And I wasn't there to say goodnight when he did which shouldn't bother me but it does. He talks to me every day, and we always wish each other good night... I guess I'm just a sucker for routine.
3. I am lonely and have been extremely lonely for the past couple of days. I've been trying to distract myself with music, playing guitar or piano, reading, writing, coursework, working on my speeches, etc, but nothing is working and I don't know what to do ._. I've cried quite a few times in the past couple of days (INFP probs, man) and I'm beginning to think maybe I'm PMS'ing?
4. My family, whom I still live with, has been very stressed the past couple of days. My mother in particular has been very angry and easily agitated. This means I cannot go to my family for socialization and I don't really, ah... go out and see people for socialization.
These are my main reasons for having the saddie-sads, I think. I don't like to have the saddie-sads because I realize I am off-putting to others when I am in a sad mood, but I don't know what to do! It is a frustrating situation for me. It looks like I am overthinking everything, but this is everything I thought of after I started feeling sad because I realized my sadness must have some sort of reason and I needed to find the reason(s) so I could fix it. However, I don't know how to fix it ._.
I feel very awkward and lonely right now. Halp ;-;
