illume
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- Aug 5, 2007
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- ENFP
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- 4w3
Hi Dear.... Having had a LTR with an ESFP (not the same as an ESTP, but similar traits), I can tell you that mine NEVER discussed deep feelings. Was terrible at expressing remorse too.....I think you are expecting a lot from someone who may be sorry but will never express anything more than "I'm sorry." I also found his responses to my hurt feelings to frequently be terse and unkind. You are the deepest of the deep and to be perfectly blunt, any SP in my opinion is just not up to NF standards on depth. My relationships with any of them have always been sadly lacking for that reason among others. Perhaps a friendship would be different? Maybe, maybe not. I am still wary.
I think if you can accept things more of a "face value fashion", you will be fine. It is just about damn near impossible for an NF to do that.......Just don't expect much from an ESxP.
I think if you can accept things more of a "face value fashion", you will be fine. It is just about damn near impossible for an NF to do that.......Just don't expect much from an ESxP.