Heavens help us - what happened here?!
First, to Captain Chick and all other NFs who are interested and/or posted:

We did not mean it mean when we said that Hitler was an NF. Heck, I am an NF - but we are talking about NFs who "went wrong." You guys are all NFs who "went right" - so we aren't talking about NFs in general, but just those who went to the "dark side."

We love you guys and the forum wouldn't be the same without you.
I know it is hard to think of an NF in those terms. I mean, when we see NF we think of all the NFs who developed "positively." We think about Ghandi and Princess Di; we think of Mary and Jesus; we think of Nelson Mandela and JFK; we think of all those cute NF characters that make us laugh and smile and feel good. People who dream of a better world and want to make life better. Hell, we think of the NFs on this forum, most of whom are happy, peaceful and kind/considerate.
Hitler an NF?! No way - when we think of Hitler we think of some bizarre combination of Stewie Griffin, Voldemort and Terminator. We think of some inane, infeasible total evil; brilliant but totally messed up. And since most people associate this kind of behavior with NTs (um, don't ask me why - I think it is TOTALLY unfair), they think Hitler must be an NT.
Also, most historical information we have about Hitler is totally biased in two ways:
a) Most of the info we have on him come from his speeches, in which (I believe) he put on another "hat" in public. Sure, here he can come across as an ENTJ almost, or even an ENFP (Don't hate me CC). But this was a facade, imo.
b) Most historical information is biased in some way. I mean even if you get the most NT, the most objective, the most pedantic person to record history, not everyone can record everything, which means (by default) a filter must be used. Someone has to decide what is important and what isn't. I mean, we do not record every time Hitler went to the restroom or eat a plate of lasagne.
Couple that truth with the fact that most historians are TOTALLY biased, and you have a mixture of disaster. Don't think history is biased - it is written by SJs or NTs? Take another look.
Stalin was an evil bastid too. Take a look - the guy totally eliminated whole groups of people. Some estimates report that he killed up to 60 MILLION of the peasant farmers, to whom he referred to as "Kulaks." Take a look at this quote from Wikipedia:
...And at roughly the same time, forced rapid industrialization of the largely rural country and collective farming by confiscating the lands of farmers. He derogatorily referred to farmers who refused his reforms as "kulaks", a class of rich peasant which had in actual fact been wiped out by World War One; millions were killed, exiled to Siberia, or died of starvation after their land, homes, meager possessions, and ability to earn an existence from the land were taken to fulfill Stalin's vision of massive "factory farms"....At the end of 1930s, Stalin launched the Great Purge, a major campaign of political repression. During his continued repressions, millions of people who were a threat to the Soviet politics or suspected of being such a threat were executed or exiled to Gulag labor camps in remote areas of Siberia or Central Asia, where many more died of disease, malnutrition and exposure. A number of ethnic groups in Russia were forcibly resettled for political reasons. Stalin's rule, reinforced by a cult of personality, fought real and alleged opponents mainly through the security apparatus, such as the NKVD.
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(Sound like someone we know?!)
This guy was even more ruthless than Hitler - well, okay, how do you quantify ruthlessness??? But he was just as bad. And he did this with his own people. Gahhhh! But no one ever talks about this guy like they talked about Hitler. WHY?! Because he was our ally against Fascism, that's why. Take a look at poor George Orwell - when he wanted to publish his political satire Animal Farm (which criticises the development of the Russian revolution under Stalinist rule) no one (NO ONE) wanted to publish it in London in 1945 until AFTER the war was over. Dude, how unfair is that?!
What I'm saying is that historical sources are hardly EVER objective. They never portray the whole picture. Since we rarely see Hitler outside the context of his speeches, we have to rely on eyewitness accounts, and they are often afraid to open up and talk. So we have to rely on a very few first-hand accounts, like that of Junge or Speer. So an accurate portrayal is almost impossible.
That being said, I think that after observing both the first-hand accounts, in addition to some very critical analyses of books, films, etc. one can only argue that this guy was an NF gone terribly wrong. Take a look at this version of weaknesses:
Negotiator
INFJs as Negotiators
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Strengths
Strengths of INFJs
Entranced by ideas - can be innovative in finding solutions. (check)
Not swayed by popular notions of what is "right." Will find own way. (check)
Visionary about the future. (cehck)
Committed to own ideals of what outcome ought to be. (check)
Determined to implement their views. (definitely big check)
Can persuade spouse to cooperate with their vision and will be effective in own behalf as negotiator. (well, maybe not - she served another function, but considering he considered his spouse to be the German VOLK - BIG HUGE ASS CHECK)
Weaknesses
Weaknesses of INFJ's as negotiators
Under stress they may lose sequence, become disordered, get their priorities confused. (check)
Same determination and single-mindedness which is their strength can be a weakness if they fail to consider opponent's views or possibilities of other options. (biggggg check)
See own idea as perfect, may miss risk that idea is faulty. May miss sound practical aspects of opponent's ideas. (definitely)
If spouse's lawyer intervenes,they can become frustrated and not negotiate well. (umm...)
Can miss the give and take needed in negotiations. (YUP)
Can get discouraged if their idea or approach is negated. (definitely)
Can react by giving up and going to trial (which may not go any better for them). (okay, war, but same idea)
They like harmony and if emotional conflict gets too high, may opt out of negotiations. (yup, Blitzkrieg sounds more like it).
Tendency to hold back part of themselves (this is proven through many eyewitnesses)
Not good with money or practical day-to-day life necessities (he was practical in some ways, but not others)
Extreme dislike of conflict and criticism (oh hellz yeah)
Have very high expectations for themselves and others (both a strength and weakness) (DEFINITELY)
Have difficulty leaving a bad relationship (don't know about all that, but look at Geli Raubl).
How others see the INFJ as a Negotiator
Manipulative. (check)
Too nice and trusting. (okay, maybe not here, but no one is 100% INFJ)
Not very flexible. (yup)
Won't consider other options, ideas. (definitely)
Won't listen to other's ideas. (hell yeah)
Traits of INFJ
Intuitively understand people and situations (OH YEAH)
Idealistic (DEFINITELY)
Highly principled (in his own definition, yes)
Complex and deep (no question there)
Natural leaders (totally)
Sensitive and compassionate towards people (as long as you fit in the definition of right people, yes)
Service-oriented (sure!)
Future-oriented (no question there)
Value deep, authentic relationships (hard to say)
Reserved about expressing their true selves (definitely)
Dislike dealing with details unless they enhance or promote their vision (right)
Constantly seeking meaning and purpose in everything (yes)
Creative and visionary (without a doubt)
Intense and tightly-wound (YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSS)
Can work logically and rationally - use their intuition to understand the goal and work backwards towards it (He did this until 42)
So what we are talking about here is not a GOOD INFJ - for heaven's sake, but an INFJ who has developed into a total - well, what word can we use???
The problem with NFs is the following: When we are good, we are almost too good for words. But when we turn bad, we are worse than any NT, SJ, or SP. When we turn bad, we turn BAD!!!!!!!!!!!!! I mean bad!!! (Did I mention, bad?!) In this way, I have to agree with BlueWing (Holy crap, did I just say I agree with BW?!?!?!?!! Write it down in the history books!!!) When NF goes awry, it totally does beyond the point of no return. 99% of us are cool, kind, compassionate, sweet, affectionate, passionate, and just all around GREAT. 1% of us are totally F-ed up!!!!!!!