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While any type can come across as socially inept, the reasons for that will be strongly influenced by type. The same is true about any observable behavior. Any type can exhibit any behavior, it is why and in what manner they are doing so that will differ from type to type.Inferior feeling does not automatically mean that people entirely lack the ability to feel empathy, create emotional connections or socially interact with people in a meaningful way. There can be a wide range of reasons as to why a person might experience themselves as socially inept that is completely unrelated to say, MBTI type.
Again, Fe will influence how one socializes more than whether one socializes. I would expect the E/I attribute to be most closely linked to predisposition to socialize.Fe has thus in such a sense necessarily little and nothing to do with a person's ability to socialize. Also, just because a function is rejected into the unconsciousness it does not mean the function must automatically be used poorly or not at all. It is the dominant-inferior relationship that is the most important relationship in a person's psyche, and as such, even if Fe is in the inferior psychological position it can still be utilized well or more than the dominant. It is just not done so consciously as in that the person in question is consciously aware that they are now performing an Fe evaluation. That makes the function inferior are thus two criteria:
1. It is repressed into the unconsciousness which leads to that
2. The ego has no conscious control of how the function comes across which can make it come across as very black and white.
It is important to understand that (2) does not mean the function is used poorly, but that the function itself does not come across as very nuanced when expressed.
The highlighted comments do not make sense. Yes, the inferior function lacks conscious control, operates without subtlety, but still may have effects that are very strong. By this description, though (with which I generally agree), it is at best a loose cannon. Why and how can someone use a function well when it is outside conscious control?
A great example of my comment above, in how type influences the way in which someone manifests a common behavior, here social inappropriateness.Just because you favor Fe in your functional stacking it does not mean you will actually be socially appropriate. It completely depends on how the Fe type understands social appropriateness to begin with. My grandmother is an ESFJ and I think most of my family would in fact consider her quite socially inappropriate, especially by today's standards, as her understanding of social appropriateness hinges on her Si experiences and none of those experiences are particularly relevant today.
Yes, MBTI theory assumes a healthy individual. But what is "healthy"? How much/many of the qualities associated with autism (or depression or bipolar behavior, or . . . ) must one demonstrate in order to cross the line? That is an important part of this discussion.Depending on the severity of the autism itself, I am uncertain people with autism can even be properly typed, cognitively. This is because the way their brain works is fundamentally different to that of a "normal" person.
Yes, your thinking process was sound, based upon your stated goals. Someone who has a different goal in discussing the topic might have placed the thread elsewhere. In any case, posting something in the NT subforum does not exclude participation by other types.[MENTION=16405]Why exactly do I need to understand this? And why is it your business to try to point it out to me? Especially as you are not "correcting" my understanding of the functions as they relate to this, because you're not explaining how or why. I actually did think about where to put it, and I put it in the place closest to my immediate purpose, which was to attract the attention of people who I thought might relate to it. I don't think that relates to poor use of thinking, we just don't agree about there being an association with type.
Simon Baron-Cohen has many worthwhile papers on this topic, namely the gender distribution in Aspergers/autism and possible reasons for it.Actually, I've read an a couple of articles lately on female aspies - they echoed this one but took it further. There's a recent theory that men tend to test more frequently for Asperger's syndrome because the diagnostic requirements are designed for a male brain. High Functioning Autism is often described as being very literal, to the point of lacking imagination entirely, and having no ability to read social cues. But the male brain generally (and I emphasis that word - generally) already leans towards a more literal, logical mode of thought, and parts of the brain related to social interaction (such as relating to communication) are less developed. So it could be said the (male) Asperger's is like extreme 'maleness'. With this, and the innate differences of the female brain in mind, it is not unexpected that there may be a female version that is being missed.
Everyone does have problems. As I asked a couple pages ago, what is the dividing line between, e.g. feeling depressed now and then as many people do, and having true clinical depression? Too low a threshold leads to overdiagnosis; too high, and serious problems are unaddressed. Ability to function in daily life is the yardstick I suggested, with the important caveat that this is strongly influenced by external social factors. I would not say, though, that inability to function is caused by a disorder, but rather that it indicates the problem is significant enough to be a disorder. In other words, it is more a matter of degree.I also want to say that people should be very careful pulling the whole, "everyone has those problems" line when it comes to disorders. While I understand their suspicion of modern psychology (especially with the issues surrounding over-diagnosis), they must also realise how incredibly dismissive that is towards people with genuine issues - it can even be dangerous. Imagine telling a clinically depressed person that, "everyone feels sad now and then - it's not such a big deal". The point is it has little to do with whether other people may have similar problems; it actually comes down to whether someone is - in psychology language - "maladaptive". If the problems are having a persistent, intrusive impact on their life, then a disorder might be the cause.