I am an 17 years old female ESFP, 7w6. I have really strict parents!!!(that restricts my use of Se). They do not allow me to go clubbing, house parties, stay out later than 12 am or anything related. But those are things I reaaaaaaaaaaaaally want to do. Therefore, I am behaving like an an MBTI without the use of Se functions.
Also, as they are really strict, I got sent to an (academically) good school where nobody parties or clubs, so I can't find friends that share the same interests as me. I only have a bunch of superficial friends who chats about homework, everyday life etc
Things I really want to be doing but not allowed are : partying, clubbing, drugs, sex etc. But due to parental restrictions and lack of like-minded friends, I can't do any of those. I feel restrained and sometimes depressed, even feeling like I'm wasting away by youth not doing those fun activities. My parents only supports activities that are 'harmless' in nature, like shopping, sports, food, movies etc, and I have done all those 'harmless' activities 100092341843 times, I feel really bored.
Also, my infp friend is skeptical of me being an esfp as she said all the esfp people she knows of (mainly celebrities) are hardcore partiers and have a lot of sex, vastly different from what I portray, so I'm kinda suspicious if the site typed me wrongly too.
TLDR, An ESFP girl who loves and wants to party and go to clubs/music festivals but are restricted by strict parents
Also, as they are really strict, I got sent to an (academically) good school where nobody parties or clubs, so I can't find friends that share the same interests as me. I only have a bunch of superficial friends who chats about homework, everyday life etc
Things I really want to be doing but not allowed are : partying, clubbing, drugs, sex etc. But due to parental restrictions and lack of like-minded friends, I can't do any of those. I feel restrained and sometimes depressed, even feeling like I'm wasting away by youth not doing those fun activities. My parents only supports activities that are 'harmless' in nature, like shopping, sports, food, movies etc, and I have done all those 'harmless' activities 100092341843 times, I feel really bored.
Also, my infp friend is skeptical of me being an esfp as she said all the esfp people she knows of (mainly celebrities) are hardcore partiers and have a lot of sex, vastly different from what I portray, so I'm kinda suspicious if the site typed me wrongly too.
TLDR, An ESFP girl who loves and wants to party and go to clubs/music festivals but are restricted by strict parents