wrldisquiethere
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My boyfriend's birthday and our one-year anniversary is coming up in a few weeks and I am trying to decide what to do for him that will be special and out-of-the ordinary. Since he is inclined to get uncomfortable if things get too cheesy, I thought I'd enlist the help of others with a similar personality to his.
I have a gift...somewhat practical, somewhat fun. I am framing some of his favorite comic books for him. Other than that I'm not sure what I'm going to do for him, but I'm not too concerned about coming up with gift ideas.
What I am trying to figure out is what kind of activity will be meaningful to him. Although he doesn't enjoy a lot of sappiness, we definitely have our tender moments and he enjoys those as well as I do. I am just trying to figure out how to stay on the right line of tender without crossing over to sappy territory.
So, NT's, particularly ENTJ's, are there any gestures a SO has done for you that were meaningful to you? Or anything you know you would like to have done for you? Do you have any advice or ideas for me? Please be nice.
I have a gift...somewhat practical, somewhat fun. I am framing some of his favorite comic books for him. Other than that I'm not sure what I'm going to do for him, but I'm not too concerned about coming up with gift ideas.
What I am trying to figure out is what kind of activity will be meaningful to him. Although he doesn't enjoy a lot of sappiness, we definitely have our tender moments and he enjoys those as well as I do. I am just trying to figure out how to stay on the right line of tender without crossing over to sappy territory.
So, NT's, particularly ENTJ's, are there any gestures a SO has done for you that were meaningful to you? Or anything you know you would like to have done for you? Do you have any advice or ideas for me? Please be nice.