Abcdenfp
Terpsichore
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No I just didn't expect a unicorn to.Did you post hoping no one would respond?
No I just didn't expect a unicorn to.Did you post hoping no one would respond?
No I just didn't expect a unicorn to.
Lol dozens she says... hmmm mmm.There are dozens of us!
You know to cuddle and say what makes you happy and sad, what drives you daily, your fears.. your hopes .. to be vulnerable with another person and feel safe, share the inner dialogue with SOMEONE ELSE!
feeeeeeeeeeelinggggggggssssssss (watches istp head in other direction)
Staying up late talking about feelings. What does that even mean?
You know to cuddle and say what makes you happy and sad, what drives you daily, your fears.. your hopes .. to be vulnerable with another person and feel safe, share the inner dialogue with SOMEONE ELSE!
feeeeeeeeeeelinggggggggssssssss (watches istp head in other direction)
For the record we are attempting to engage in an exchange that involves intimacy and the temporary loss of autonomy.. let's be one for a couple of hours, share ideas and reveal emotions... feel each other on a deeper level.ew I think it's one of these things where ENFPs talk about themselves and ask esoteric questions to whoever must suffer through it on the receiving end.
This drives me crazyOkey but... once you're done saying "I'm fine" or "good" what else is there to say. *scratches head*
This drives me crazy
" I'm fine"
"sure"
" oh okay"
"good"
"yep"
"noted"
"so noted"
" RME , SMH, ILU, TY, YW
there is no room for dialogue, it's like I've imputed information into a computer program and I'm getting the automated response. WTH
For the record we are attempting to engage in an exchange that involves intimacy and the temporary loss of autonomy.. let's be one for a couple of hours, share ideas and reveal emotions... feel each other on a deeper level.
Also let the record show, I know all you hear is (blah blah , waaaah waaaah waaah)
Your a ENTP so I gathered that. It's not enough for me this answer of "fine" and then close the figurative door. I don't want to intrude but I also want answers and I don't want to feel like I've infringed on your privacy. There is no close to the emotional circuit and I want that.Well I'm not ISTP but in my view "fine" is enough of an answer, because emotions rarely influence my actions so I don't really have any interest in going into great details regarding my own 99.9% of the time.
Your a ENTP so I gathered that. It's not enough for me this answer of "fine" and then close the figurative door. I don't want to intrude but I also want answers and I don't want to feel like I've infringed on your privacy. There is no close to the emotional circuit and I want that.
You know to cuddle and say what makes you happy and sad, what drives you daily, your fears.. your hopes .. to be vulnerable with another person and feel safe, share the inner dialogue with SOMEONE ELSE!
feeeeeeeeeeelinggggggggssssssss (watches istp head in other direction)
How people don't see any conflict between this idea and being in a casual/open relationship boggles my mind. "Be vulnerable and talk about all of your deep desires and emotions but know that I'm also talking to someone else the same way and this could potentially end abruptly at any time."
How people don't see any conflict between this idea and being in a casual/open relationship boggles my mind. "Be vulnerable and talk about all of your deep desires and emotions but know that I'm also talking to someone else the same way and this could potentially end abruptly at any time."
How people don't see any conflict between this idea and being in a casual/open relationship boggles my mind. "Be vulnerable and talk about all of your deep desires and emotions but know that I'm also talking to someone else the same way and this could potentially end abruptly at any time."
This really irritates me, shared dick time? Because your not the only person dicking me down? But if I was a male who had two girlfriends I see casually you wouldn't be worried about the shared pussy time right?Also the Penis time share would be an issue for most guys I know.
Because the ones who press for this openness aren't actually talking about their deepest, darkest desires either. They just want to hear yours to feel the drug hit of instant communal intimacy. (Infatuation). Which isn't real intimacy because that takes time. Have you met enfps??!
while I will say that I can enjoy the feel of the infatuation process.Because the ones who press for this openness aren't actually talking about their deepest, darkest desires either. They just want to hear yours to feel the drug hit of instant communal intimacy. (Infatuation). Which isn't real intimacy because that takes time. Have you met enfps??!
This really irritates me, shared dick time? Because your not the only person dicking me down? But if I was a male who had two girlfriends I see casually you wouldn't be worried about the shared pussy time right?
while I will say that I can enjoy the feel of the infatuation process.
It's not what I'm searching for in those conversations. I am trying to see if you are able to be vulnerable with me so I can feel safe sharing my feelings with you. If you are unable to share then I tend to withdraw..watch you for a bit, wait and then prod , review your response and make decisions but it's kind of seamless.
Actually the original purpose of this thread was to highlight the difference between the ESTP and the ISTP that I am with their consent and understanding dating both.Uh. No I never said that - also to answer your question I'm pretty monogamous myself so I wouldn't really engage in two or more relationships simultaneously - but that's irrelevant to the conversation. Just that most guys I know would not like the idea. Also related to evolutionary biology. Women tend not to like sharing the affection of their partner while men tend not to like to share their partners sexually. Lots of individual variation, and overall neither gender likes sharing either the affection or the sexual availability of their partner ofc. But it makes sense from an evolutionary perspective. Also technically it would have been pussy time share in your case and dick time share if it were two women sharing a man. Just wanted to see if you'd catch it. If you know that both partners are fine with it then well. Fine. I don't really care, it's your life. However if they don't or you strongly suspect they wouldn't or/and you wouldn't like if the situations were reversed then I'd advise you to strengthen your sense of ethics - as ethics are central to healthy relationships. If they re just fuck buddies and it s nothing serious then I don't see the point of this thread. So which one is it?