I am in love with someone thats married. I also work with him. He treats me right internally in the relationship but has a wife so externally im not getting what i need and deserve out of this relationship. I also am newly 9 months sober from heroin and everything else. I know that what is right morally, and what is right for me is to leave him. Logically and rationally i see these things and as for feeling i want to leave him, but it is so hard because he makes me feel so good and i also work with him which creates more problems because how am i supposed to stay away? Is there anyway for an enfj not to feel so much? to pay more attention to their logical/rational/thinking side? I feel so conflicted about this issue, any advice for this enfj??