Blackout
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I just wish we could stop comparing ourselves so often or completely with our ancestors or far off and distant way of life. It doesn't always prove or deny anything and we have proven to be very adaptable and capable of conscious change or control of ourselves.
Obviously, people choose to not have kids if they don't want to, it's just this unspoken expectation that still many cannot really see beyond because its' become so conditioned into how we see reality and I suppose many people just don't creativity or independence to imagine a life without the time consuming commitments of family/children even if they never liked the idea all that much in the first place, or liked their own family or origin. I mean, it's like we're all just supposed to keep appearances and external 'realities' in check when even though below the surface none of it is true.
Obviously, people choose to not have kids if they don't want to, it's just this unspoken expectation that still many cannot really see beyond because its' become so conditioned into how we see reality and I suppose many people just don't creativity or independence to imagine a life without the time consuming commitments of family/children even if they never liked the idea all that much in the first place, or liked their own family or origin. I mean, it's like we're all just supposed to keep appearances and external 'realities' in check when even though below the surface none of it is true.