INTJMom
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Unfortunately my good feelings from earlier in the day only lasted about 2 hours. They were overshadowed by the bad feelings I got from a quarrel with my husband.
I hate it when that happens because it makes me feel so disconnected from him. And I feel like I spend more time dis-connected than connected. Boy ain't that the truth. Connection is rare anymore. I'm getting tired of it.
And he has the nerve to complain about me! He felt like I minimized his feelings. I felt like saying, "Oh yeah, join the club! Now you know how I felt for the years you verbally abused me almost every day!"
If I took the freedom to complain about all his faults, he would accuse me of being a nag and tearing him down all the time. I only wish I could do the same to him. But not really. That doesn't do any good.
I hate it when that happens because it makes me feel so disconnected from him. And I feel like I spend more time dis-connected than connected. Boy ain't that the truth. Connection is rare anymore. I'm getting tired of it.
And he has the nerve to complain about me! He felt like I minimized his feelings. I felt like saying, "Oh yeah, join the club! Now you know how I felt for the years you verbally abused me almost every day!"
If I took the freedom to complain about all his faults, he would accuse me of being a nag and tearing him down all the time. I only wish I could do the same to him. But not really. That doesn't do any good.
