Mole
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It is obvious to me online that most don't respond to what I say, but rather they unconsciously express their own feelings.
Offline it is different, offline I don't focus on myself, rather I focus on the other person. I can see exactly how they are feeling right in front of me, and I can see exactly how they respond to everything I say.
And strange as this may seem, I tailor what I say to make them laugh. I do this with a deadpan face so it seems they laugh spontaneously.
I am very successful at this and do it 2, 3, or 4 times every day.
It does seem strange to me that I make others laugh but don't laugh myself.
But yesterday my chaplain told me that if I make others laugh, I don't need to laugh myself.
Offline it is different, offline I don't focus on myself, rather I focus on the other person. I can see exactly how they are feeling right in front of me, and I can see exactly how they respond to everything I say.
And strange as this may seem, I tailor what I say to make them laugh. I do this with a deadpan face so it seems they laugh spontaneously.
I am very successful at this and do it 2, 3, or 4 times every day.
It does seem strange to me that I make others laugh but don't laugh myself.
But yesterday my chaplain told me that if I make others laugh, I don't need to laugh myself.
