laurapants08
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Do INTPs have difficulties with making decisions, especially decisions that have to do with commitment for long durations of time?
Do INTPs have difficulties with making decisions, especially decisions that have to do with commitment for long durations of time?
It counts if you want it to count! Your decision your commitment [emoji13] blllah!I didn't sleep the night before I got married, if that counts.
There's this INTP guy who've I've been interested in and we've been great friends since we've met. I remember the first time dating/love/relationships was brought up and he said that he wasn't allowed to date. I noticed that he doesn't like being tied down to just one conversation online and he talks to other people simultaneously other than me. I've been told that we suit each other and that he has romantic interest in me but I can tell that he isn't ready to commit to having a serious love life. INTP's don't like being tied down and want to have the freedom to roam. The problem is that they don't realise that they will get that freedom depending on which type they date. I feel like we're compatible as partners and we have insightful conversations. That's an INTP in my experience as an INFJ anyways...
What makes you and he a great match?
We have similar interests and can debate and converse continually, thus creating wonderful connection. We've shared great ideas and memories which he mutually enjoys and we share enlightening topics. Not all INTP's may get along with INFJ's but this one and I really do have a good relationship with each other. I'm sorry if the tied down comment doesn't apply to all INTP but it does seem like a recurring trait with those typed.